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... This is such a typical example of how it is to relate to someone in a cult. They are compelled to filter everything, even an innocent conversation about mangoes, through the "blind defense mechanisms". It is impossible to just have a normal verbal exchange. They have to justify and fold every word and action into the "party line" and make their time with you worth while. Unconsciously they are saying to you, "YOU ARE WRONG. You are the error. You are not acceptable as you are." Instead of just being with their son in a loving exchange, they had to turn it back to the cult doctrines. No wonder you are so angry, Rama.
Yes - I remember when I used to act like this myself. Everyone you met, whether your family or strangers or co-workers - you HAD to introduce them to some form of your Krishna philosophy - IT WAS YOUR DUTY! There was always the feeling that YOU KNOW EVERYTHING and everyone else is IGNORANT...
Whether telling them that they were not the material body, or that they cannot really be happy in this world, it always introduced a BLACK HOLE OF NEGATIVITY into the conversation and it seems that 100 per cent of people get turned off by this and that's the end of the friendship.
And speaking of mangoes, and "food not being the goal of life," yet their own guru has an army of people cooking for him and if they are late with the FOOD, guru FLIPS OUT. But what else would you expect from "[b:a59fc2501f]the corporation that brought you all weather hypocrisy and chewable mind control." [/b:a59fc2501f] :)