The Full Story
In a final effort to get the truth admitted, I contact the woman who said I committed those illegal acts toward her, last month. I asked her one final time to admit what was going on in our messages. (She was not ever a student of mine, and she was not ever a student of Vedanta, for a start). She refused outright and also laughed (in email) when I told her I had reported her to the police. She then sends me a large email and threatened me that something was going to happen to me over the next year or two. She then said she was blocking me forever.. I sent a quick reply telling her to not bother gaslighting. What is it with these people? She, RV, the Swartz' and their groupies come on here and do the same. it's everyone else's fault, nothing is any of their faults. Have you noticed that according to all of them, their s*** smells of roses. They have never accepted any responsibility for anything, about anything.
This is the full story of what went on. Although it's the first time I'm being so candid, I've intimated heavily on this forum many times, by my choice of specific words. As always there is various proof available for anyone. And I would invite Swartz and any Shinignworld student who believes what he wrote about me, to have a bit of honour about themselves and contact me for the proof. If you fail to do so, that's evidence enough you are being taught s***. We would not be so close-minded in actual Vedanta. There's no hero-worshipping. Anyhow...
We had begun to form a romantic connection over time, and it was very pleasant. I liked her a heck of a lot. There was a real friendship, and it developed into a romantic/sexual connection. We even spoke on Facebook messenger of me going to Canada to see her, and we spoke often of just holding one another. that was perhaps the nicest part, for we understood one another deeply. There was a real, tangible connection. I would have crossed the ocean to just sit with her no problem. To tell the truth, the connection we had was beautiful. The conversations were mutual, and as we were connecting in intimate ways like mutual exchange photograph's spoke about, and we had beautiful phone calls. intimate, but not always sexual. Highly personal, and there was a real closeness. We bonded so well together. It was truly a nice time. Intimacy cultivates connection, and two people with an ocean between them that are regarding each other romantically, well one does with what they can. We had quite a few discussions about it. Such things are fine between two consenting adults. And as a householder Vedanta teacher, I am not bound by celibacy, but it is still a good example not to break the law. As I've already mentioned, she was not my student or involved in Vedanta. So there was no problem We both agreed that we would exchange photos. She was working up to that. She told me, "I am super curious to see them." regarding mine. A few days after, the subject came up again in Facebook messenger, and I offered to send what we both wanted. She replied; "No, don't send them right now, I'm in hospital and my Dad is here, later is fine." There was a baby in the family. A couple of days later they were sent. We carried on talking for another month after that. Then the subject came up again, and she began to have a reaction at that time accusing me of sending her unsolicited nude photos. My immediate response to her in Facebook Messenger was;
"It wasn't unsolicited. We had spoken before, and you said you were 'super curious' to see them. But you were at hospital. It wasn't unsolicited".
The woman had shared some of the conversations with my students and others to try to ruin my role as a Vedanta teacher, but she only shared a small amount of the whole conversation. The parts I have just mentioned where mutual consent was she did not include. She also did not include her speaking of sending me photos. If I was less of a man, I could stoop to that level and release her explicit messages, but I have refrained from doing that to save her embarrassment. I've deliberately done all I can to not embarrass her by outing what she said publicly. I kept my counsel for a while over this, though I always hinted at this here in the forum in the way I worded things. it is a terrible thing to get accused of something sexual in the wrong. I have known men to kill themselves over it, only it to be found out later it is lies. People must not accuse others wrongly in this 'genre'. such things can follow one around in their community. it ruins peoples lives and mental health.
The lady wrote a piece about me and began to pass it among students. There was an attempt to isolate me, from my students and my Guru behind my back. It did not work, as I had the support of my Guru always. A student told me that my lineage was informed of the accusations and I burst out laughing. I told her what the reaction would be, and she did agree it was a certain way. The damage was done by the ex-student who wrote to Swartz drunk, this is the account RV I refer to on here. This person and that woman tried to impede students learning, based on a Vendetta. I had offered the ex-student Vedanta telling him to not even donate, for 14 months. I would call him at 1 am my time for private classes, as he was getting up for work in Japan. And not accept a penny. I know of no other teacher in Vedanta that would do this. He was freely offered everything I knew and had. And I don't regret it. He was perfectly happy to have teachings with no offering of anything, but the moment I suggested that the price of a cup of coffee might be offered, he had a meltdown. As one of my admin, he waited until I went to bed and spoke about me, his teacher, in a lineage online 'classroom'. Group rules were broken by him by sharing another's personal life without their permission on a social media platform. This included an attack on my daughter. I had gone to intervene in her life, 6 months before she died. I went to get her from an apartment. And I was assaulted and had to defend myself, with police support. I was placed under threat and I was in hiding over this and asked for help with anyone I knew, so I could be out of the area. I asked my ex-student RV. After all that I gave to him, and with my life in danger, he took offence to me asking for a £50 loan to get home. He even accused me of lying in that piece he wrote in my group. So I showed the horrifying facebook messages that my little girl begged me to go help her as she was getting beat up. There is nothing RV won't do in his nastiness, and I feel sorry for him. all the hate he has, for everyone, including God. I help him with the latter, but he has created his living hell. The police gave me an armed escort in three cars, 80 mile home, which is a secret address. That would be the last time I would see my daughter alive. She was really upset. She had secretly messaged me on Facebook that she is getting beat up, so I went and stopped that, having to fight with 8 people in the street, and getting kicks to my face. The last thing she spoke to me about, she was really upset, as she knew the danger I was in. She begged the police to take me away for safety, but they could only take one, so I got them to take her, and I walked on foot. Always looking behind me. The bad people chased us, but my son and I got away. Still, I managed to get her into police custody for safety. I never saw her again. She was found dead in the place I tried to get her away from 6 months later. Anyhow, this ex-student, RV, decided to use parts of this story against me in front of Swami online. RV also accused me of being on cocaine as I had a runny nose. Absolutely everything he could he thought. He used every event over the last two years, no matter how silly it was, to make accusations. I think the nutter had been secretly making a dossier about me over that time. He accused me of making false claims that a well known American Swami was my Guru and he even wrote to him about me! The latest troll account on here used a little part of the SWami's email and put it out of context on here. They just can't help themselves twisting what is true. I have exact emails from Swami saying he is my Guru, lmao. It doesn't matter, I have four Gurus anyhow. per our tradition. Different Guru for different points.
Anyhow, RV was banned from the FB group, and I kept his topic accusations in place, and took out the personal stuff, per group policy. I invalidated the attacks on my teaching, in front of Swami in the group. What happened afterwards is that the Swami endorsed me. Similar to what happened when Swartz wrote about me and ordered me to stop teaching. And I have continued to have that support. He then teamed up with this woman and behind my back, they tried to get students and Swami to walk away from me. Initially, it seemed to be working that was because it was being done behind my back, but in the end, it failed. I did not lose any students, but they tried their best to negatively impact students learning, based on vindictiveness.
Even after the photos were sent to that woman, things were fine between us. She asked for money she loaned me. I explained I lost my job and was relying on village charity and I backed that up with screenshots. She told me in an email that was fine. I was amazed to see an email from her a few days later demanding the money. I repeated what we had only agreed, but she was very upset. I now know that RV had begun to speak poison to her. She wrote to Swami saying I had ghosted her with no explanation of when she is getting paid back. Yet I have emails from her after she wrote that letter about me! She had lied about that, just like the photo context. I contacted the police in her country, but they do not allow individuals in another country to make a complaint. It has to be local police. I then filed a report with the Police Service of Northern Ireland. They ended up ringing me five times. But the first time they told me that they cannot investigate this as she is in another country, that I have to report it to them. I told them they are saying the same thing. Here is a verbatim excerpt of my online police report which I have saved;
Police Service of Northern Ireland Incident Report
PSNI: Tell us what happened in a few words:
Me: I am being harassed online by a woman in (location withheld)
PSNI: Full details of the incident:
Me: A lady in (location withheld) is harassing me online. She has been writing to people that I sent her unsolicited naked photos of myself. She has told people, and now they are also publishing things. This lady told people in a private exchange, and I have also been in direct contact in email with her. I have insisted she goes to the police (location withheld) but she is refusing. The police will be able to check Facebook Servers and see that I Didn't send anything unsolicited.
Because of my past, and I was well known in the criminal justice system, what I was effectively doing was informing the local police of a crime that I have potentially committed. You won't be surprised to hear that the local police investigated this. If I sent unsolicited naked photos in this county, that is a crime under the UK Telecommunications act. It is also legally a sex offence in the UK. And is investigated here. It is punishable by a maximum of 6 months prison in the magistrate's court or 5 years in the crown court. I was a gang leader in the past, the police said in court I was a 'coordinatior of crime' in an area comprising two towns and one city. The police made two phone calls to me in which I knew I was being investigated. Everything I have told you here I told the police. I told them I sent photos and explained the context. They grilled me on whether she was underage as we had never met, and I explained how I knew she was not. They asked for her name and contact details, which I gave. After some weeks they rang me back. They were not interested in talking about the photos. So go figure. They were very interested in whether James Swartz was still publishing about me. He is one of the biggest fools I have ever met. Swartz made a big thing in email with me, educating me on how much it would take to get someone to court. He goaded me as he knew I could not afford it. What he foolishly doesn't understand himself is that if you publish lies about someone more than two times, under UK law that can be regarded as harassment. And that is a criminal offence. My complaint to the police was about harassment. He may know libel law as he has been accused enough online, but I know criminal law. I told the police that he had stopped, but if it resumes then I to contact them again. If something is true it is in the public interest, but if it is not true then it is malicious and that is harassment. Because they have told lies about me works for me. Swartz didn't do his due diligence, and he posted material about me that is provable lies. He's left himself open to criminal proceedings. If he posts lies about me again, the police can bring proceedings. Know it all Swartz also told me that it is really hard to get court judgements enacted legally internationally. He is wrong again. I have been in contact with the company that hosts his website, Godaddy. Godaddy USA has written and told me that they will comply with a UK court judgement concerning Shiningworld should it be issued. I'm tempted to feel sorry for how often he is proved wrong.
There is one last thing that I will speak about. I will just say how it is, and you can draw your conclusions. I am certain sunny Jim never knew this either. The woman who accused me of illegal sexual acts has also accused another spiritual teacher before. They got close and she accused him of sexual things. She refused to go to the police about this teacher also. This isn't hearsay, as she told me the full details herself. So this is the second time that she is accusing of a teacher she got romantic with, of making inappropriate sexual advances to her, and the second time she has refused to go to the police. That is all I can factually say about both these times.