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utah
...Anyway, she survived, not in impact training anymore and is doing great. So there are happy endings for some who get out - so don't beat yourself up too much.
I appreciate your wish to soften the blows, but a point I would like to make is that it can be GOOD to beat yourself up if it keeps you from doing something horrible again, or if it makes you a better person. Excessive tolerance can be immoral. Besides, I am aware some people get out of it OK. They aren't the ones I worry or think about. However, I am
sure that if someone said to
my mother's face some of the things I assuredly said to other people's mothers, I would punch them in the face without hesitation. They would be lucky if I stopped with a punch. Just because they may have survived feedback relatively unscathed doesn't absolve the inhuman treatment inherent in the practice.