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vaidya
his methods and techniques are provocative i know and have seen him push people far beyond their boundaries, but when looking for a guru, do you really want someone that utters platitudes that validates your delusions, or someone to pop your illusory ego bubbles?
If I was going to look for a 'guru' at all, I'd prefer one that was respectful of others and their boundaries. It's possible to teach with kindness and respect.
I hope so anyway (I'm an optimist :) ) though most 'gurus' seem just to enjoy the power, control and ego trip of it.