Rainbow, thanks for sharing your traumatic experience of so-called “deliverance”. It is truly shocking, especially because you were so young. I really don’t think the deliverance was necessary and I don’t believe that you actually had demons. You might have made mistakes or spent time with non-Christians but that won’t cause demons to enter you, in my opinion.
There are strict safeguarding rules for churches about ministering to children and young folk under 18. These are adhered to in most churches nowadays. I’m not sure of the detail but I’m pretty sure that pushing someone down and pressing their back with firm hands is not to be recommended or allowed. I am going on a Child Protection course soon, specifically for people who work with children in a church-based setting, so I will try to find out what the current instructions are re praying with children and teenagers. Struthers maintains that they have Child Protection policies in place but they’re only concerned with paedophiles getting access.
Rainbow, I found it to be common practice that the leaders don’t like to answer questions or discuss what happened, after you’ve received some kind of ministry. This used to bug me. But especially in your case, they should have explained to you what had happened and why, and should have sat with you to make sure you were OK. How callous to just leave you alone in the vestry after it was over. And for someone to say to you, “You’re not right in the head” when you wanted some support! Nobody who says that to a young person should be serving as a youth-leader. But of course, she was a specially chosen one.
I think this Forum is doing a great job in getting the truth about what Struthers is really like, out there in the public domain. As blackwatch points out, this Struthers forum has had over 500,000 views. I know that some of the Struthers leaders do keep an eye on the Forum and I also know that many Struthers members read it too. I discovered this from conversations with folk who are still in Struthers (the ones that still speak to me if I bump into them at the shops). They do read our postings. On occasions when a leader warns people not to look at the Forum, what happens? Scores of members go home and look at it out of curiosity. So the truth is getting out there and hopefully it will stop people, who are looking for a church, from going there. Or from sending their kids to Cedars School.
There’s a new video out on YouTube about the spiritual abuse and control which young Christians suffered in recent years, under the ministry of Mike Pilavachi, an Anglican leader who founded the Soul Survivor youth movement in England. Matt Redman, the singer/songwriter, has made the video which is called “Let there Be Light”. I can highly recommend it. There are similarities to some of the abuses in Struthers. One thing that’s different about this case, though, is that Mike Pilavachi has publicly apologised for his treatment of young folk, especially young males.
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