Sorry about your experiences. Most other Christians don't understand the way pentes do things; telling them about being slain in the spirit, speaking in tongues or spiritual warfare and you can make their eyes boggle. Do you think all pente churches fit the description of cults
I don't keep in touch with any Christians any more. It was too hard. It was painful leaving the faith behind. It was hard looking some people in the eye when I knew they turned a blind eye to abuse. Some people I thought were friends crossed the street. Some were friends for a while and we lost touch through lack of effort - it happens I suppose. Some friends it got harder with because they judged my choices and were always looking for an angle to preach. There's a lot of lies about atheists and it got exhausting having to explain things all the time.
Loads of good communities
out there though.