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Dave has sought to blame me for questioning the ambiguity of quotes he made regarding pedophilia for the various allegations that have followed, and even suggested I initiated this discussion out of the blue. This is not true. The original discussion began in response to a poster on the JCs forum who asked why the JCs considered it a sin for consenting homosexuals to enter relationships comparable to heterosexual marriage. This woman suggested that morality needs to be based on an understanding of minimising harm with the example of rape in which the use of force against someone is manifestly wrong. Dave was trying to suggest some things are immoral just because God/society says so. The problem was that in comparing pedophilia to homosexuality and in the argument that so-called "seduction" negates the issue of force, Dave appeared to fail to grasp the issue of coercion and the sense of real harm that occurs when an adult abuses the trust of a child.
...and he continues to do so to this day. The more he responds, the bigger the hole he digs. He seems to have no grasp on reality. He doesn't see what everyone else can see clearly.
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Perhaps in Dave's mind he was just having an intellectual discussion and so it was not fair to try and analyse what he says beyond that. But a point is not justified just because you can spin an argument to defend it, and the isolation of Dave-speak from the real world seems to be part of the problem. How else can you explain the whipping trial that went ahead it seems against the good counsel of his own members? Dave seemed to lose sight of the forest with his interest in the trees in this conversation, and I felt the same myopic logic resulted in a convicted pedophile operating without the necessary supervision required to stop him from re-offending in India. The experiment to see if a pedophile who was accepted into a community where he would be denied the private liberties on his own and where he was surrounded by healthy adult child relationships may assist his rehabilition, failed. There were no community children in India, and so it seemed he was largely unsupervised when he went on to trains to sell Easy English books.
That is exatly the point i was making. Dave is willing to take unethical risks all in the hope of attracting another victim/follower and that makes him a danger to society. The child abuse in India could and should have been avoided.
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The response against this individual when he voluntarily confessed his crimes was swift and absolute. It may be argued that he should have been handed over to Indian authorities and the involvement of the group that this person came from in handing him over to Australian authorities represents an attempt to distance himself from the situation, but the severity of the jail sentence would not support a claim of the minimising cover-ups that appeared to be common in the Catholic church.
Kevin i disagree and i feel you've provided an argument as to why. Why wasn't the man handed over to the Indian authorities?
Dave claimed he had to ask a close friend of the man to convince him to confess and this confession happened in Australia so it certainly doesn't suggest it was swift and absolute.
Dave should have reported this man to the authorities immediately.
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I recalled Dave's resistance to informing community members of this person's history for fear that the stigma may interfere in his acceptance into the community (although Cherry's counsel ultimately reigned.) And one parents horror in discovering they had left their two children in his direct care in ignorance, and overstated the extent of that problem, for which I apologised. However, the account of another pedophile being sent on outreach with a mother and her children some years later who had not been notified of his history suggests the original issue that I raised might have represented a relevant concern.
This again further backs up my point and that is why anyone considering joining the JCs deserves to know about such incidents.
Dave does not learn from his mistakes, that is clear. The unethical risks he is willing to take put children at serious risk of harm. He's taken these risks on more than one occasion in the past so who's to say he won't do it again in the future?
He is a very dangerous man.
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The main point in the forum discussion where Dave denied "force" in relation to the coercion inherent in pedophilia, was that it might reflect a blind spot in his own behaviour in influencing young people to do things they may not have otherwise chosen to do. Dave has argued that parents have had a whole childhood in which to influence their son or daughter's thinking and if they have failed in this regard he is entitled to compete as an influence. Children are exposed to all kinds of influences and we can't wrap them up in cotton wool. But I don't think its normal for a 12 year old child from an Indian village to be told they can come for a visit to Australia where they will be sent to school, but find themselves sent out to flog literature on the street instead and told, when they beg to return home, that they are choosing between serving God or Satan... much less be maligned, when after some thirteen years service, for having joined with ulterior motives and leaving when she saw the prospect of a better life and taking their husband with her. [Comments posted by Ross and defended by Dave]
His argument that there is very rarely force used in paedophilia cases is deeply disturbing. It is definitely a blind spot on his part.
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I think comments where Dave minimises the nature of sexual perversion in the COG comes from the perception that critics have exaggerated the common experience, and individuals should take responsibilities for their complicity in the activity they were part of. Strangely this seems to result in Dave trying to blame xJCs for things they did under his leadership and acting like a victim when confronted by anyone who takes offence at his various attempt to demean and demonise those who oppose his excesses
There's no excuse for Dave's constant defense of child abuse in the COG. There's so much proof out there which Dave chooses not to believe.
Kevin did you ever hear Dave openly refer to David Berg as a paedophile?
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I am not seeking to join a lynch mob or have anyone publicly flogged for his "errors of judgement". But the truth is the truth and it might be in Dave's interest to swallow a little pride and accept a little personal responsibility for his actions, instead of always blaming other people for his failings
Many people have tried reasoning with Dave but it has been proven that the man us unwilling to accept personal responsibility for his actions. He seems unable to show any type of remorse or compassion. I think you're flogging a dead horse with that one i'm afraid.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/21/2010 11:15PM by Apollo.