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pequagirl
It doesn't seem so since they are still intermarrying and seem to be keeping themselves separate.
This is to be expected no matter the state of things though. Decades of exclusivity have yielded some
really unique results, many of them being positive, too. In the beginning the group was simply a hodgepodge of strangers, but they became a community that, given 4 generations, has now evolved into several large families that are mostly interrelated. We have friends whose parents were friends before us. We have friends who are friends of our
entire extended family. They intermarry because childhood romances are picked up again, because your family already knows and trusts the person, because you've been on the same rollercoaster ride as they have, etc. They keep themselves separate because we were all born into this, and the fact that it
started as strangers, some 40 years ago, is such a far-gone reality; we are family now, blood and otherwise.
The catch is that
some of these relationships, even blood, are only as strong as your commitment to the group. When so many youth have grown up without Jack, knowing "the family" to be "their friends" more than anything, it's hard to standby and watch the older generation try to force this ideology upon them. Many of the youth just to keep their friendships, but live their own lives.