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Nichijew
Hi Hitch. Being that the Lotus Sutra "is an important literary, historical, moral and ethical document." and the Human Revolution "is simplisticaly transparent, amateurish, and just plain stupid.", why do you think SGI members assiduously study and covet the Human Revolution at the expense of the Lotus Sutra?
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dragon14
Somehow I didn't make many friends in the Gakkai after 17 years as a member. There were a couple that I had some interest in pursuing after my departure, but they've all gone cold and I don't really miss them. To be honest, the whole time I felt like an outsider in the group even though I was heavily involved in activities.
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evergreen
Daily life has been interesting lately. You see, I've always been told to chant about my problems. Since I've stopped practicing I don't chant (some others on this forum still do on their own or through another Nichiren school). I don't think I've ever had to deal with my problems head on, alone. It was always in the back of my mind that problems were there because I didn't chant enough, or that I was lessening my karmic retribution, or that I was being protected from something worse happening (benefit). Its hard to do, but fortunately I'm equipped now to be an adult. Sometimes there is no reason/logic for hardships.
Many people who are members of SGI don't try very hard in their everyday life, it seems to me. They just chant about problems that they have instead of really working and thinking things out. Good or bad things happen to them randomly, not necessarily due to work or planning, and then the good things are attributed to chanting, and the bad things are attributed to karma. We were told not to think things out. Use the "Strategy of the Lotus Sutra" to address problems (whatever that means??) is something that I heard many times.
For me, daily life has also been interesting lately. Without the cloud of SGI hanging over my head, I am enjoying life!
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SGBye
It seems that you had a rebellious streak in you and I was the same. I would go along with the SGI shenanigans, but I'd be rolling my eyes at the same time and thinking, "Are these people for real?" But children are taught to listen to their elders and authority figures - in our case, gakkai leaders - and so I did what I was told.
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Hitch
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dragon14
Somehow I didn't make many friends in the Gakkai after 17 years as a member. There were a couple that I had some interest in pursuing after my departure, but they've all gone cold and I don't really miss them. To be honest, the whole time I felt like an outsider in the group even though I was heavily involved in activities.
Although I've been told that quite a few of them miss me, I can't say that the feeling is mutual. They've always struck me as a rather superficial bunch of so-called "friends." I ran into one person who is now a salaried leader and the arrogance was dripping out of their ears and their eyes had helter-skelter written in them. It was amusingly bizarre. If I had to sum it up in one word, it would be "creepsville."
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evergreen
Daily life has been interesting lately. You see, I've always been told to chant about my problems. Since I've stopped practicing I don't chant (some others on this forum still do on their own or through another Nichiren school). I don't think I've ever had to deal with my problems head on, alone. It was always in the back of my mind that problems were there because I didn't chant enough, or that I was lessening my karmic retribution, or that I was being protected from something worse happening (benefit). Its hard to do, but fortunately I'm equipped now to be an adult. Sometimes there is no reason/logic for hardships.
Many people who are members of SGI don't try very hard in their everyday life, it seems to me. They just chant about problems that they have instead of really working and thinking things out. Good or bad things happen to them randomly, not necessarily due to work or planning, and then the good things are attributed to chanting, and the bad things are attributed to karma. We were told not to think things out. Use the "Strategy of the Lotus Sutra" to address problems (whatever that means??) is something that I heard many times.
For me, daily life has also been interesting lately. Without the cloud of SGI hanging over my head, I am enjoying life!
Regarding the bolded above, I've always had to kind of laugh about this. I've noticed the exact same thing. They'll literally chant until the cows come home (or not) and never actually take real action or do something in reality to solve and address the problem. Trying to chant away their problems or at least chant about them until they can change the way they view them or find a new way to accept it. I'm aware that they also give "guidance" on the importance of taking action, but I very rarely saw that actually happen.
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Shavoy
Tons of chanting and tons of activities create a situation where you don't have to face the painful nitty-gritties. High "life-conditions", too. Therefore, that's why members' lives don't always have a lot to show for "actual proof" with what would be considered on-going Karma--karma that never seems to go away.
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Shavoy
The proof is in the pudding, Hitch...I feel very strongly about what I had expressed in a previous post. If you will not, cannot, (or both) accept and come to terms with issues you are facing in your life, well...ya get what ya get. Just chanting for hours and hours won't do a heck of a lot. It falls into magical thinking. Everything will be just fine if I chant and do activities!
Tons of chanting and tons of activities create a situation where you don't have to face the painful nitty-gritties. High "life-conditions", too. Therefore, that's why members' lives don't always have a lot to show for "actual proof" with what would be considered on-going Karma--karma that never seems to go away.
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Shavoy
Hello, doubtful. "All the Ikeda worship will not play anywhere but Japan, in any meaningful sort of way. Do they really believe that what the world really needs is to know how special Ikeda is?" I am trying to wrap my head around why people's minds get sucked into deifying somebody and wanting to make their mentor's dream their own...fulfilling their mentor's dream. What about their dreams? I have stated it here before and have had some good feedback about it, but I still cannot completely get why..why SGI feels that mentor/disciple worship is going to go down like gravy in America. They seemed to have loosened that grip back in the 90's, but now, as we all know, it is back with a vengence. How unappealing. The marketing strategy for the US is pretty darn lame, if it wants to widely spread kosen-rufu here. They've really dropped a ball in their mission to overtake the Western Hemisphere. It ain't going to happen.