So, here’s the final word on how HAI destroyed my marriage….keep in mind that Dennis Jimmink is on the HAI TEAM and REPRESENTS THE VALUES TAUGHT BY HAI….he sits on the sideline of the workshops and the facilitators point to him with pride, and the HAI membership believes he is the kind, wonderful, loving, and harmless person who willingly listens to their every trauma.
I am appalled that someone in the higher echelons of what increasingly appears to be an abusive cult is allowed to continue working with vulnerable woman (and men). Maybe Janet Dale's attention needs to be brought to this thread. Your report has certainly made me think twice about my own involvment with HAI.
I AM ESPECIALLY APPALLED THAT THERE HAS BEEN THREATS OF DEATH FROM THIS MAN. MY GOD - WHERE'S THE "EVERYONE WINS" AS STATED IN HAI'S MISSION STATEMENT?
Whilst you say that this is your final post may I ask which branch of HAI this man is involved with?
With regards to abuse from members of the HAI leadership team I understand that there is a person in HAI called 'Chip' who has also been reported on the RickRoss board as being less than squeaky clean. I wonder what happened to him?
The whole affair of abuse of participants (yours especially) is what makes me really concerned about such 'self-improvement' cults. They are very free to take your money, they promise you Heaven and Earth, but then when things go wrong, instead of sorting them out and owning responsibility for them, they close ranks against the victims.
In allowing this man to continue in his role the entire HAI leadership team bear responsibility for his attitude and actions. Its an utter disgrace that he is allowed to continue his involvement.
I'm sure that we all look forward to some response from HAI here, if someone can be arsed to.
Edited 5 time(s). Last edit at 09/19/2008 01:50AM by SeekingTruth.