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siofra
You refer to the pressure to conform and believe <as> being strong – there is a partial truth here. I believe the group momentum to value the experience is strong and that can have an emotional impact. How long that momentum lasts after the workshop ends probably varies. For me, after workshops I go through a shift from workshop intensity to seeing what is left after the intensity fades...for me it usually lands as a memory or a piece of personal growth I want to continue working on. It feels more introspective/about me than focused on HAI.
What concerns me is that the peer group pressure to join in *everything* is very strong as
engineered by the facilitators. Sure they always state that 'participants are at choice' but it is impossible for anyone to make any real choice when the secrecy surrounding the exercises is so high. Why don't they treat participants as the adults they are and state what each exercise is trying to achieve and what activities are involved in advance, thereby allowing everyone freedom of informed choice rather than having to make a choice constrained by the assumed trust that the facilitators will always have every participant's best interests at heart?
It seems to me that the HAI programme is designed to break down participants' mental barriers from their upbringing, from cultural or religious mores, and from general attitudes towards others. But I support DayDreamer's point that intimate sexual activities of any kind belong to commited couples and need to be enjoyed in PRIVATE not in public be this in a 'Room of Love' or anywhere else for that matter.
Edited 6 time(s). Last edit at 03/22/2008 07:10AM by SeekingTruth.