Discovery doesn't tell you to work on things that you are already healed from. You are talking through things that you are NOT healed from.
Do they inform you of that at the outset? Do they advertise this? Do they offer themselves up as qualified to deal with emotional issues that are traumatic enough that people think they need to be "healed?" Do they admit that what they do is fake or pseudo psychology done by untrained and unaccountable non-professionals?
Don't be a fool. All these groups get people to dredge up old pain in order to use it against them, reminding them of past misery so that they feel bad enough to go with the formulaic and simple-minded LGAT "cure."
Exactly and the proof is in the pudding if you ask me! My sister came out of it not cured! She is now an emotional mess. She spent and entire day a few weeks back with my parents in tears telling them how awful they were to her as a child and beyond. My parents weren't awful. Sure, they made some mistakes, but we were fed, bathed, clothed, loved. My parents attended every football game where we were all in drill team or cheerleading, every dance recital, piano recital, etc........ and she wants to sit and tell them how they screwed her up.
Discovery did this to her. Made her dredge up past hurts that she was already over with and told her she wasn't really over them and look where it got her, one mentally unstable woman if you ask me!
Discovery teaches you that in order to be healed from past hurts you have to acknowledge them. I have past hurts, but what healed me from them was time and by the grace of God, not spending an entire weekend bringing them all back up one by one and putting myself through an emotional hell to get over the issues that I'm already over!
Crazy freaking stuff!