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TurningPointReject
This is how self deceived people operate. People are a means to an end. As long as you are able to help me get what I want then I will treat you as important. If you can't help me then I have no time for you. If you are perceived as a threat to me getting what I want then you must be destroyed (nothing wrong with destroying objects is there).
I don't know. Does this describe your experience at TPC? If so they the leader may be self deceived and not even realize it.
This is so true of what is happening at RLC. If you have looked at or noticed the listings of well over 500 people that have left the cult in the recent exocus you will see that many of those people pastors, elders, leaders, and disciplers. They are not just people who passed through the church for a weekend or two. Many were leaders who were deceived by the lies of Tony including a couple of pastors and well over a majority of the elders. The people remaining and in leadership are deceived and are living the lie. It takes some people longer than others to come out of it.