One more thing:
It seems to me no-one has the guts to tell this woman to move one - all she's looking for is someone to validate her feelings. And that's not what I joined the forum for.
Moving on is a [i:b2d92f3db2]process[/i:b2d92f3db2]. Having your feelings validated is an important part of that process. Most people here spent years in a place where their thoughts and feelings were suppressed, where they were told how to think and feel, and where they were made to feel guilty for expressing the thoughts and feelings that they are now sharing openly here. Having someone affirm that they're allowed to have their own feelings is a huge part of recovery. Do not deny them that. And do [i:b2d92f3db2]not[/i:b2d92f3db2] force them back to a place where they feel condemned for not yet having "made it".
If you read the whole thread, you'll see we have been talking openly about ways we can take this on to the next stage, ie making public moves to expose Kirkby Christian Fellowship. You seem to expect this to happen overnight. If only dealing with spiritual abuse were as straightforward as it seems to be in your world, AJG!