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corboy
'You need to meditate' or 'You're not meditating'
Those are both classic though stopping statements. And carry an element of shaming in them as well.
One can reply 'You dont know me well enough to presume saying such a thing.'
But this is a self serving group.
Well strangely enough what happened was that I went to meditate for 30 minutes while the other person was playing video games. Even though the clock clearly showed that a half hour had passed, they were so immersed in the game that they thought it was only 10 minutes.
It's something I've encountered quite often with younger and less experienced "buddhists" who seems to believe that everyone else's perceptions of reality are distorted, and it's often the final step, and the one where they really start to take Buddhism seriously when they finally realise that it applies equally to themselves. DWB however is the only situation where I've encountered this phenomenon en masse.