I have just lost my girlfriend because of LEC. She is the love of my life. Her values and beliefs were transformed into LEC beliefs and values. She refers to our time together as "History" and she has "delt with the past" and "moved on". My experience is consistant with all that I have read. I have lost her because her head and heart were altered through very powerful techniques employed by LEC. Although she has now made the move out of LEC after 11 weeks, completeing The Forum, Forum In Action & Advanced Courses, professionals have told me it will take her from a couple of months to up to 2 years before she is able to balance her original beliefs and values and her care for other people with the LEC experience. I believe that once a person makes a move out of LEC, 80% return back to their former selves with a balanced view of the experience though the path is very rocky.
The bottom line is that LEC is a temporary phase in most graduates lives. The effect can be massive and so can be the exiting and debreifing. Do you want to go on this journey?
I would recommend you go to [www.landmarkeducation.com
] site and check out their dating search engine. Read a number of the profiles - their interests and their view etc. See if you can percieve a pattern of speak and thought. It is your choice.