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I don't want to attend even if it means losing my money.
You are doing the right thing by not attending. That is the best advice anyone can give you. Landmark is bad news, from beginning to end. Contrary to what your friend says, it will NOT help you, unless you want help in becoming a brainwashed robot and programmed recruiter for Landmark. The best thing you can do is review this website, visit world-wide cult information websites (use Google to search) and do research on Landmark's history. The Rick Ross website has the information you need to be informed on this group. Save yourself, man!!
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I also had read that they are supposed to ask if you have a history of mental illness, which I do have. I never got a copy of the contract I signed.
Didn't you find it strange that you didn't get a copy of the contract? All reputable companies provide their clients with a copy of contracts they signed. Right there alarm bells should have gone off. Landmark has reasons why they don't provide you with a copy of the contract. Take a look at its contents:
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“I willingly and knowingly assume for myself, and my heirs, family members, executors, administrators, and assigns, all risk of physical injury and mental and emotional upset which may occur during or after the Program, and I hereby agree to hold Landmark Education Corporation, its officers, directors, employees, agents, and/or volunteers, harmless from any and all liability arising out of my participation in the Program.”
And how about this gem:
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"BY SIGNING THIS I AM AGREEING TO HAVE ANY ISSUE OR CLAIM ARISING OUT OF MY PARTICIPATION IN THE LANDMARK FORUM DECIDED BY NEUTRAL ARBITRATION AND I AM FREELY GIVING UP MY RIGHT TO A JURY OR COURT TRIAL."
Landmark doesn't give you a copy of the contract because they don't want you taking it to a lawyer. No lawyer worth his salt would advise you to sign a contract with such waivers. It's also odd how these Landmark people sure go out of their way to cover their butts. This waiver speaks of "physical injury" and "mental and emotional upset". Now why do you suppose Landmark feels the need to protect themselves against such situations? Well, Landmark must have its reasons; otherwise it wouldn't be in the contract. Ergo, second alarm bell!! lol Perhaps the reason Landmark protects itself in this fashion can be answered in a post I found on another website:
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"My son has gone through the [Landmark] program, and is now sitting in a hopital [sic] under psychiatric care. Where are they when their program goes bad? They don't want anything to do with him! Afraid of the lawsuit maybe. this is not an isolated incident - it happens often -”
Landmark has another reason for acting in such an unprofessional way by not giving you a copy. Here is another portion of the contract you signed:
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The Agreements below and on the back page are intended to have legal significance. If you have any questions about their meaning, please feel free to consult an attorney."
What hypocrites. How can you consult a lawyer when you don't even get a copy of your contract? And even if you did, if you've succumbed to Landmark's pressure - they insist, or rather [i:0150ff0a22]demand[/i:0150ff0a22], that you sign the contract the night you attend the information session - what's the use of getting a legal opinion if you already signed the contract? It's catch-22, isn't it? Very clever on Landmark's part - also very insidious. But then Landmark is the master of manipulation.
Oh, those Landmark people know what they're doing.
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I also had read that they are supposed to ask if you have a history of mental illness, which I do have.
You are indeed correct. Here is the portion of the contract that deals with mental illness:
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1. Have you ever been hospitalized for psychiatric care or a mental disorder, or has such
hospitalization ever been recommended to you by a physician, psychiatrist, or mental
health professional?
If yes, what was the MOST RECENT YEAR that you were hospitalized for psychiatric
care or a mental disorder or that such hospitalization was recommended to you by a
physician, psychiatrist, or mental health professional?
2. Are you currently in therapy?
(If you are currently in therapy, you must advise your therapist that you are going to be in the Program
and you must get your therapist’s assurance that he/she sees no health reason why it would be inadvisable
for you to take part in the Program. It is our intention here simply to serve your best interests by not
adding any input your therapist does not know about.)
(a) Have you advised your therapist that you are registered in the Program?
(b) I asked my therapist if he/she sees any health reason that would make it inadvisable for
me to participate in the Program. Mytherapist’ s answer was:
(c) I have not yet advised my therapist about being in the Program, and I will by:
(Please call the Landmark Forum Registration Fulfillment Manager at Landmark Education
as soon as you have your therapist’s answer.)
3. Have you ever been in psychiatric or psychological therapy and then discontinued that
therapy against the advice of your therapist before it was complete?
If yes, what was the MOST RECENT YEAR that you were in psychiatric or psychological
therapy and then discontinued that therapy against the advice of your therapist
before it was complete?
4. Within the past six months, have you taken (or has a health professional advised you to
take) any prescription medications or drugs which: a) affect your mental processes or mood;
or b) treat a “chemical imbalance”?
5. If you answered “yes” to questions 1 , 2b, 3, or 4, we recommend that you NOT participate
in the Program at this time
Did you answer "yes" to questions 1, 2b, 3 or 4? If so, it seems here we have a case where Landmark by its own contract recommended you not participate but they took your money anyway. I'm no lawyer but that sure seems like a lawsuit to me.
In your case, I'd write Landmark explaining you have mental illness, you answered "no" to the pertinent questions on the contract and demand your money back. Be persistant though, Landmark likes their money, as we all do, but I don't think you'll get a refund without a fight. Even if you don't get your refund, my strong advice to you is to stay away. Think of it as a lesson learned for the future. Check things out before you sign on the dotted line. Don't give in to pressure or high sales tactics. You have legs, walk out. That's what I did.
As an afterthought, this person who recommended Landmark to you, is he/she a friend? If so, I wonder what kind of friend you really have to recommend you get mixed up with this Landmark garbage. If you suffer from mental illness you need to be under the care of a qualified therapist, not these Landmark loonies. Landmark leaders are not required to hold post-secondary degrees in psychology or psychiatry; they're real estate agents, bookkeepers and like their founder Werner Erhard, used car salesmen! Get the help you need and stay away from Landmark.