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nooneofanyimportence
I gues where I have trouble is with what we consider honor. why is it things money, cars ,motorcycles, material things, somehow slowly we have been lured into the blief thats what honor his, Someone told me the other day how much they appreciated me, how I've encouraged them and they respect me. Wow now thats honor even now as I write this my heart is warmed by it but things they just get old they lose thier luster money gets spent the lawn grows back, it seems that the world honors with, perhisable things but thats not what we were taught by Jesus. He washed thier feet not gave them fifty bucks and said thanks. He loved them, what and honor that must be. To be loved by God true you cant ride down the street looking good and taking pride in your possession, but isnt this about the heart.If you want to be great humble yourself, I have honesty never seen humility from tony. He reminded me of the guys who love to sit in the front row praying for others to see in thier fine robes with bell on them .
I am going to chime in on this one for a minute and I hope I can make some sense. nooneofanyimportace I am so with what you are saying. My at RLc was confusing though because the exact opposite was taught and acted out all the way up the line of leaderhsip. It was not enough to respect Tony you had to bless him with a special offering at SoMa or whatever.
Here's what I have to saya about honor. The bible says to honor our mother and father which incidently many at RLC have conveniently chosen to ingnore because of Tony's manipulation. When the bible speaks of honoring our mother and father I do not believe I have ever seen any interpretations that speak of honoring them with material things. How can we honor our mother and father or anyone for that matter? We can honor them by respecting them. We can honor them by loving them despite their faults and downfalls. We can honor them by obeying them until we are of adult age. We can honor them of speaking well of them. We can honor them by acknowledging what they have done for us. Now I understand that there are many situations out there were parents have not been good to their kids and honor may not be due. I am not sure how honor fits in these situations but I am certain it has nothing to do with money, cars, babies, or anything else material. Also, honor in the military has nothing to do with material things. Honor in the has to do with obedience, bravery, and respect. Obedience should never be tied into material things, ie you are obedient and honoring me because you are giving things to me.
I have had much experience as a coach. I have coached boys and men anywhere from 5 years old to to 23 years old. For me, the greatest esteem and honor I could have or feel is when a kid I have coached or a parent comes up to me and makes an extra effort to tell me that what I have done has been appreciated and that I have done a good job. This has shown me far more honor than any material gift such as a gift certificate of coffe mug or whatever.
Honor to me is related closely to respect. I may be biblically off on this but I really do not think so. I hope I made sense. I gever far too many things and spent far too much money at Radiant Life believing I was honoring my pastor, discipler, ministry leader, the church, or Tony. I was one of those fools who went up to the alter one time after one of Tonys multi level marketing type sermons and threw all my cash on the altar. I dont mind giving to the church but I was being manipulated. Tony should be selling amway.