Here is a link for a YouTube message by an American lady, Roberta Morrison, entitled Church Trauma. I thought people on here might find her talk helpful. She has been through the experience of church trauma herself and had to leave ministry behind. So she knows what she’s talking about. She calls it none other than spiritual abuse.
When you listen to her, it could be Struthers that she’s talking about. She mentions being shunned or treated coldly by members of a church you have left, and consequently you leave friends behind, authoritative preaching and pastoring, having decisions made for you by leaders, shaming if you make a mistake or don’t get healed after being prayed with, sidelining you when a younger person comes along to replace you in a ministry etc.
She describes what people who leave abusive churches experience and she calls it TRAUMA. And from that trauma, people need time to recover and to heal, time to learn their worth and value as an individual. Time to meet new people and find a healthy church.
Anyway, I’d recommend watching it. Here’s the link:
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