Re: YMBBA Ministries
Date: August 12, 2012 12:07PM
Hello,
I very close friend of mine is in teh wells group. She joined a year or so ago in Grand Prarie and has become weirder and more distant ever since. I am extremely alarmed now because she told me Friday that she's marrying someone in the group a week from tomorrow. She invited me and all her family. I have spoken to them and no one is going and I dont see how i can go either, as I'm in south florida and six months pregnant. After reading what's been posted here, I realize how lucky we are that she is still speaking to any of us, as we are not believers in her way of thinking. I was even more relieved to hear that she still actually calls her family. She doesn't call me any more - only texts. I'm lucky to have even that. She is marrying a young guy named William. I am trying to determine from this board if he's one of the group leaders or what. I guess what I'd like to ask the members of this board is, should I go to this wedding? If I don't go, do you think I'll ever see her again? I'm afraid to go. I am not religious and I don't know if I can really take all of these people trying to convert me all day. The plane ticket is also pretty expensive at this late date. My main goal regarding my friend now is to keep the lines of communication open so that she knows she can always count on me if she ever feels she's in trouble. I am concerned about their beliefs about medical care. My friend is not quite as young as some of the other group members and I am worried that she is going to become pregnant and not have any medical help with that. If anyone here could tell me more about the group's beliefs regarding medical care, I would appreciate it. I'd also appreciate your thoughts on whether or not it would be wise for me to attend the wedding given my condition. I know some of you have visited and likely have a better idea than I about the atmosphere there. I would also like any tips you may have on how to keep communication open with someone who is deeply, deeply into this way of thinking and who shows no signs of wavering from it. Also, out of curiousity, what does YMBBA stand for? Thank you.