KirkbyFurby Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Sexual abuse of children happened at this church. > Much like the Church of England’s scandals, the > leadership handled it “in house” and then covered > it up. There has never been an admission of > wrongdoing, no accountability for those who > enabled or concealed these crimes, and no apology
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I can see, I will check out the deconstruction zone. Thanks for sharing!
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Hi deprogrammed not sure who you are, but thank you for sharing so many thought provoking videos, and your commentary is also very good. Critical thought and reflection contribute to the inner work that, all of us must do to heal the wounds of abuse. For those of us who don’t feel they can heal, by doing the inner work themselves, and continue to be triggered by unresolved inner wounds. Then refe
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Hello folks! I’ve not been here in a long time. I was reading all the posts to catch up. I must address KirkbyFurby are you saying there was Sexual abuse at Kirkby Christian Fellowship? I am an abuse survivor myself from my childhood. I’ve not heard about the sexual abuse there. Did you go to the police? How was this handled, can you be more specific? I have never received any response for the me
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It is because older wiser people see through him, as do psychics.
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This guy is not what he appears to be. His history as a banker selling arms to Iran, is not a good background to come from. He mentions his life is about atonement now.I know you have to be a Mason to be a banker, as far as I can see he is still making subtle Masonic hand signs when being interviewed. His partner in crime talks about doing freezer spells on people spiritually attacking her… That
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KCF: Their main weapons are:- Chinese Whispers
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A piece of advice: Never share you heart with someone who belongs to a cult. Their thinking is so warped, they will gaslight you. False Gossip, control, lies, deceit and hatred are the tools they use to divide - toxic, low vibrational energy. Being able to see through this and to trust your intuition, is the way to escape from their control. You are an adult now, not the lost child, that needs
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Deprogrammed0110 Yet, they still hide away from making amends, no good ever comes from that in the scheme of things. "Anyone can hide. Facing up to things, working through them, that’s what makes you strong." - Sarah Dessen
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Isawtheway I have to say my one saving grace, during this time, was being in contact with Bill Turner. I was in contact with him for years. What I loved about Bill was he was a “real” earth angel he saw the truth about what was really going on. He told me everything that had gone on too, and who had done what to me. How lovely it was to be seen for who I truly am. I didn’t have to fight my
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Hi Isawtheway On the plus side! A person of true integrity, can’t stand such behaviour. If this is the reason why you escaped “ hats of to you” you are a person of true integrity. Their lies, lack of loyalty to honest people definitely “stings”. Lying and cheating will lead you to a “ long dark night of the soul “ every time, the gateway to escape and freedom. We had a blessed escap
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Deprogrammed0110 They feed off gossip and rumours about you, it’s like it’s the only excitement they get in their sad little lives. Plus it gives them a sense of power, to wield scriptures and pronounce judgement on you and snitch to the leaders. This cements their influence with the inner circle, as they try to climb the ladder to get there. It’s funny you sharing this Deprogrammed,
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Deprogrammed0110 Nothing hurts more, than the sting of betrayal felt, by these people. A guaranteed “ long dark night of the soul” quickly ensues. Which is the only way to escape any cult. Or any toxic friendship for that matter! So take it as a blessing in disguise!
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Personally speaking I couldn’t give a “rats ass” what KCF think of me. There opinion stopped affecting me many decades ago. Who are they to judge me or any other person on this site? The pointing finger of judgement always points back at them! If you are still afraid of what they think, then you are not really free from them. The recovery journey will take everyday of the rest of your life. This
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Please do not project your anger on me because, I am human and I got something wrong. This is not a place to humiliate people. Or demean them this is a place of healing and recovery, for people who have many wounds!
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And their new catchy, catch phrase… “ Our Home is your Home “ Nah I don’t think so, I know so many of us come from messed up homes, but I don’t think that one will wash! They are still not helping the homeless or feeding, poverty stricken people, providing company for the elderly. All these years and they still don’t know the gospels…
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No doubt KCF are rehearsing for “ Heaven Sent” I wonder if the locals realise they are sending their kids to a cult!
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By Valerie Tarico ~ Perhaps it’s been years or even decades since you left biblical Christianity behind. You may have noticed long ago that there are human handprints all over the Good Book. It may have dawned on you that popular Christian versions of heaven would actually be hellish. You may have figured out that prayer works, if at all, at the margins of statistical significance—that Believ
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They have recently affected my family Mork… While that crap still goes on, it makes me more determined to tell the truth. If I told you what they had done recently, you would be astounded. I’m actually too astounded to talk about it yet. However I will in time. Believe me they have no concept of the word “ sorry”. You would think the “regime” would have changed from lessons learned after the p
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I’m still very angry at the injustice I’ve endured. I’m angry at the people who so wanted to climb the ladder of influence that they stamped on me on the way up. I could name names, but what’s the point? They are oblivious, as they are the centre of the universe in their mind. Sad, people pleasing entities, that would do anything for promotion, even sell-their own souls! Separate families ,destro
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I am very suspect about tongues too. I remember Cheryl checking to see if we had demonic tongues. What kind of check is that? Surely that defeats the faith and relationship we had with Jesus. So that means she was alluding to the fact that when she prayed with people, they still got demonic tongues. Just consider that thought for a moment???????
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For many years before I left KCF the question “where is the love?” Went round and round in my head. In the end I couldn’t stand it anymore and today after 30years it continues “ Where is the love? “
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Wow how brave and courageous is Costi Hinn? To come up against the “Hinn family” that he likened to the Royal family or the Mafia. Again narcissistic behaviour is evident throughout the Hinn organisation. I watched a video on Benny's wife divorcing him “out of the blue”. Then 3 years later they remarried. The whole point of Costi’s story is standing up for the truth. That is why I left KC
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Yes I remember we used to watch endless videos of all his teachings, like they were the gospel truth at KCF, just another corrupt false teacher we had shoved down our throats. However it was all an illusion, just like the foundations that KCF was built on. The evidence is out there.
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Here is more information about what happened at Hillsong. I remember KCF thinking this church was “ the bees knees”. They always used to play their videos before and after meetings. This really does show a lack of discernment which they pride themselves on.
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If you stay in an environment like that for decades, it will cause you to become depressed, with zero self esteem, with an overwhelming need to serve and people please. That is not living! It’s existing as a slave to the whims of the fellowship. Many know they are trapped, but do not have the courage to escape. It’s so sad even Dave got out in the end, just imagine the courage that took? Poor Da
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It just proves a building doesn’t make a church!
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So one of the great shockers I have to unleash on all of you, is one of the biggest covert narcissists amongst you is Marsha, a terrible “grass”who you all thought you could confide in. Well the truth of it is she runs back to the leaders with your private thoughts. Her mother Vera was an angel, I miss her so much. But she is a definite snake in the grass, don’t trust her. Another example of s
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Yep, Cheryl and Dave told me that my father, had sexually abused me when I was a child. I was so shocked, I was frightened to go home, I took 2 weeks off to process it. I had absolutely no memory of it. I am 60 now and I still have no memory of it. Talk about trauma, it so traumatised me. I had no support to deal with the horror of being told something like that, i was in my early 20s, and my who
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And all of you responsible will” rue the day”you did this! Because you are living through the judgement that you brought upon yourselves right now.And API what you did was dispicable. You may have forgotten about what you did, but I feel sorry for your wife, knowing what a philanderer and cheat you are. If she hasn’t realised yet I pity her.I wouldn’t trust you as far as I could throw you! I beli
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