Re: Former SGI members
Date: December 30, 2009 03:41AM
Some posters have mentioned "Byrd," a blogger on the www.fraughtwithperil.com website. She loved SGI, but also questioned its policies -- and for this was treated horribly by the leadership. She died during the summer of 2008. The following is part of one of her last blogs.
--------------------Beginning of Quote, "A Byrd's Eye View," July 14, 2008, www.fraughtwithperil.com-------------------------------------------
I was really looking forward to an SGI-USA women's division pot luck this past Sunday. I was going to get my usual stuffed grape leaves from the local Armenian deli, hitch a ride with a dear friend, and enjoy chanting and interacting with the women's division members of my SGI-USA Chapter. The hostess and I have never been on anything but good terms, and I was looking forward to this activity all week.
I was startled, therefore, to receive a telephone call on Saturday night at about 8:00 from a woman's division leader who was "assigned" to my district about a year and a half ago. She informed me that she and a men's division leader wanted to come by to my home immediately in order to chant with me and "have a talk."
I declined their request to drop by, and asked what it was that they wanted to talk about. Although I took some notes, the content of the "message" was rather jumbled. I asked if we could discuss the matter the next day at the activity, but was told in no uncertain terms that I was being made persona non grata at my friend's home the next day, as a reaction to the contents of this blog.
"No!" I was told me sternly in response to my request to discuss the issues the next day at the potluck. "You are not welcome!"
"Was a vote taken on this?" I asked
"Well...uh...yeah!" she replied. There was a hesitant gap between the "uh" and the "yeah", so I'm not actually sure who the jury was on this vote. I was too startled to press the issue of whether or not the hostess had been consulted on the issue of who was and who was not "welcome" in her home.
As far as I was able to make out, the grounds for my being banned from activities with my church of 24 years are as follows:
1. I have written of Soka Gakkai International President Daisaku Ikeda in an irreverent fashion, sometimes referring to him by the common online moniker "PI" (for "President Ikeda"), and I have failed to embrace the SGI's current focus on the Mentor/Disciple relationship, specifically as it requires the adoption of Daisaku Ikeda as a Mentor in Life.
2. I have been "deceitful" by behaving courteously at SGI meetings.
There were a few other offenses hurled at me (including the always-problematic issue of my tone), but one of the most important appeared to be:
3. I have failed to "talk to my leaders" about the issues discussed on this page before posting my opinions. In other words, I have failed to submit my speech to an implied censorship process (at least that is as clear as I can be about the charge - if the leaders who want to be "talked to" before I post can clarify this complaint, I would be most grateful).
Huh. Apparently, chanting Nam-Myoho-Renge-Kyo to the Gohonzon is supposed to result in some sort of naturally occurring Buddha insight that I'm not competent to express my own thoughts and observations about my religious community without submitting my ideas to an intellectual supervisor first.
I also hope that the SGI-USA leadership will seriously consider that since the SGI's Mentor Daisaku Ikeda is the founder of a university here in the United States, a documented campaign by the SGI-USA to enforce reverence for him by prosecuting blogsites might not make him look too good, particularly since we spend so much time promoting his work as an international advocate of human rights.
If anyone wishes to contact me to discuss any matter, they can certainly give me a call. I will not, however, open my home to people who are coming there to restrict what I believe to be my rights, however "heartfelt" and "sincere" their tone may be in doing so. I also prefer not to submit my writing to the supervision of anyone who is employed as a criminal prosecutor. Otherwise, I am always available for a coffee at McDonald's, where we can discuss these bizarre matters under the happy eye of a real clown.
Stay happy, stay enlightened, stay cool - Byrd in LA
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In short -- SGI members may not publicly express any opinion on SGI -- other than the most positive -- without their leaders' permission. Funny, I was never told that when I joined SGI. If I had been told that, I certainly would not have joined -- who would?
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/30/2009 03:43AM by tsukimoto.