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elena
Hi Nettie,
I have recently been diagnosed with an incurable disease that will bring about a miserable end with little relief from excruciating pain. In addition, and because I foolishly gave my children their inheritances early, they've distanced themselves and want nothing to do with me. My two ex-spouses are writing about me to the tabloids as I am quite well known and they can make some nice money by spilling my secrets. The people I've taken advantage of have all gotten together to fill a class action suit against my business so I'll die broke as well as alone and humiliated. How can Landmark bring "positive results" for someone like me?
BR
hapless, helpless, hopeless
First of all I have to appreciate for your honesty and openess and willingness to share - it brings tears to my eyes.
Second I have to tell you that you are a real selfish being. You are an asshole. You don't love your children. It's all about you - you and you. You need to get complete now! In the next break I want you to hit the phones and call your children and accept responsibility for ruining their lives. You gave them money to buy their love! You are such an egotistical asshole - I can't believe it! And call your two ex-spouses and get complete with them...I can't believe what a victim role you play to get attention - it is all about looking good "look at me - I am dying".
(here we shift from attack to love bombing - confusing you)
If you just get into the present and accept who you are - you are complete as you are - there is nothing wrong with you! You are perfect! There is nothing to change - change causes persistence...let me quote Dr Martin Luther King -
"you have nowhere to go - you are already there" - I truly appreciate you - you are a fantastic human being.
END OF NETTIE PLAYING FORUM LEADER
Reflection: It is amazing how they trick you by shifting personalities - they break you down to tears and then they comfort you. They do this maybe not on the first day but on saturday or sunday of the forum this happens.
It is quite rude.