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I've read through the books of Timothy several times in the last few days. I shared with my spouse what I though God was showing me. Thank you for posting that here, as it confirmed that I was in fact hearing from the Lord. :)
I was reminded the other day of the very first time I realized there was a poroblem at TP. I regret that I didn't step up and say/do more then, or the many time since then....Praise God for His grace.
Anyway, it was a few years back, after TP lost one of it's original deacons, Mitch. His widow needed some help around their home, as she was trying to sort out her new life w/out her husband. A number of people from TP had agreed to spend a day at her home, helping to go through some of Mitch's things, selling them, and getting the house cleaned up and organized. Well, two families ended up helping that day. Everyone else ended up at Pastor Mike's house to build him a new deck. According to some, it was *mandated* by Cyndi that Mike's disciples be there and help with the project. Pastor Mike later announced from the pulpit how honored he was, that when he arrived home that night some 100 people were out on his new deck. When someone went to Mike and expressed disappointment over the issue, it was blown off.
It's only gotten worse from there............
Should.have.seen.the.writing.on.the.wall.
Oh my! I didn't know about the deck being in conflict with helping Mary (Mitch's widow). Before this, do you remember--were you there--when Mary was crushed terribly by Mike refusing to come visit Mitch as he was dying in the hospital? I think Mitch or Mary sent for him (though I could be wrong about that part). Someone fill in the details here, because my memory is a bit fuzzy. But I DO remember Mike giving a justification (of his not going to see Mitch) to our membership class, saying something like he doesn't just run after people when they ask. THIS WAS A DEACON! This was a man who had thrown in with the congregation to support the ministry, and of course, presumably to be supported by those in it. (We assemble to encourage one another, as well as to worship God, don't we?) Mary was deepy hurt and left the church for a while. I don't know why she came back. Mike tries to turn people's disappointments and hurts that he causes through arrogance or neglect into spiritual sins the hurt person is committing by reacting to the pain.
Yes, I too should have seen it, Brokenhearted. I have never known any other pastor to respond this way to those in the congregation who are hurting, let alone dying. Why did I "buy" the justification? Honestly, I didn't, but I kept telling myself that I am probably just being judgmental. Ugh! Well from this perspective, I wish I would have been "judgmental" (discerning), instead of just plain "mental." My bad.
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Oh my! I didn't know about the deck being in conflict with helping Mary (Mitch's widow). Before this, do you remember--were you there--when Mary was crushed terribly by Mike refusing to come visit Mitch as he was dying in the hospital? I think Mitch or Mary sent for him (though I could be wrong about that part). Someone fill in the details here, because my memory is a bit fuzzy. But I DO remember Mike giving a justification (of his not going to see Mitch) to our membership class, saying something like he doesn't just run after people when they ask. THIS WAS A DEACON! This was a man who had thrown in with the congregation to support the ministry, and of course, presumably to be supported by those in it. (We assemble to encourage one another, as well as to worship God, don't we?) Mary was deepy hurt and left the church for a while. I don't know why she came back. Mike tries to turn people's disappointments and hurts that he causes through arrogance or neglect into spiritual sins the hurt person is committing by reacting to the pain.
Yes, I too should have seen it, Brokenhearted. I have never known any other pastor to respond this way to those in the congregation who are hurting, let alone dying. Why did I "buy" the justification? Honestly, I didn't, but I kept telling myself that I am probably just being judgmental. Ugh! Well from this perspective, I wish I would have been "judgmental" (discerning), instead of just plain "mental." My bad.
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Ok, this is the deal. People have to stop following people. Tony Cunningham isn't the problem, Satan is. Mike and Cyndi aren't the problem, Satan is. They have become so entranced by the vision and refelctions other's offer their narcissistic selves. Again, it is people buying the lie and worshipping the leaders. Only God can fight this battle. The battle belongs to the Lord. If there is one thing I have learned over the years it is if I am fighting the battle, God won't. Why would God fight this battle if I think I know best? It's all so crazy. But if you think of it in the context of who we are, sinners, it all makes perfect sense. I think that Jackie and Jeff Moors should start a church. I would go. I pray that Jeff follows God's heart and I believe God has great things in store for this young man. To the person who worries on not being nice, who cares? Be real. State the truth and live in freedom. Don't assasinate people, but just tell the truth. I think their salaries are 15,000 per month take home. (this is combined and doesn't include extra tag ons) I heard that somewhere, but can't remember where. They make a whole loooooot of money. But, whatever. I keep in my heart and guard my mind with the reality that I don't want my reward here. I want my reward in heaven. I do not want to store up goods here, but in heaven. Just think about it. Mike and Cyndi will need to downsize in the everafter.
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I realize that I'm a new comer here, so please forgive me if I'm overstepping, but I've noticed something in the last few days that makes me somewhat uncomfortable. I understand that people are hurt, but I don't think that the comments about Cyndi's voice, or her hair, or other petty little issues we may have with the leaders are relevent in this forum, I'm not sure that they ever are. Cyndi's hair could be purple, but if she were walking in truth, it wouldn't matter.
I know that I've had to be careful myself, in not fault finding. I've been hurt badly, and it's easy to be critical of every little detail, but the details are not the issue. I agree with a poster above, that satan is the enemy. Nit picking will only serve to open a door for the real enemy in our own lives.
We must fight this battle in Jesus name. His light must be what moves us forward. We must speak the truth. I think that we can do these things without being critical of things that really don't matter.