Hi all All this stuff about surrogate parents and stuff makes me want to puke. I did not know about this, it must have been well after I left. I can't believe that Simon and Alison would do this kind of thing considering they have children of their own. You have got to admit it that some of the people in the fellowship who are not trapped by fear of leaving are just as much to blame for
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Hi All I wish everyone could just get along on this forum. Please people I know it is hard to share sometimes but you have to try. The more people share the more people who come on this site can see just how bad things where for us as members of this church. Little yellow spider, How long were you in the fellowship for? And how long have you been out of it? I am so sorry you hate all christians
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Hello all. Hope you are all well. Have been actively seeking some kind of media interest in our story. More people on this site need to do more e-mailing papers and what not. How is it going with the charity comission? Let's draw attention to this abomination.
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yetigoosemonster. I had to laugh (after the stunned face for half an hour) when I read your last post. I can't believe that is a testimony on the KCF website. I was completly ignored when I left. Tina and David did try to see them but they didn't want to know. And correct me if I am wong Tina and David but havn't you got that in writing? It is the biggest load of bs I have ever rea
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Miss Marple? I am sorry but I couldn't figure out what lolol means so obviously no Miss Marple then. I am more of an Inspector Clouseau, things have o be blatently in my face for me to put two and two together. So you're secret identity is safe. AJG. A very sad story about your friend and her son. I did not mean to say fought. It was a wrong choice of words. I suppose I meant if yo
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I think I may know who you are Kennelwood. Especially if you have been involved in running for local seat on council and helping people in Northwood with problems they have. Welcome. AJG, I agree that adults have some responsibilty for their own well being, but children and the vunerable do not. I am sorry about you friend who killed herself, but sometimes people who are already mentally ill a
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Hi John I am stuck with this mental image of you rolling now. Ha ha ha. I do remember the rolling thing. I thought it was absolutly mad back then. I didn't mind being "slain in the spirit" it got me out of having to dance . I never was truly slain in the spirit ever. I have to say I agree with what yetigoosemonster has said. People have choices to do the right thing or the wro
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Hello Polarbear,bbc and fire fly. I left seventeen years ago. I relate to firefly in the way I did become the person they expected me to be. I was the most cynical sixteen year old ever. I was smoking cannabis, eating wizz, clubbing in rave clubs. I was arrogant, ill mannered, in fact I was a real rebal without a clue. I wanted to lash out because I was angry. I was angry with myself for staying
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We should definatly try getting thier charity status removed. At the end of the day if we don't try we won't know.All we can do is tell them what we know and to get statements together and do our homework good. AJG have you had dealings with the charity comission before? Sunday school was scary when I was a young child but as I got older the more hilarious it was. I liked to pick ho
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Just contacted echo. If anyone else wants to get n touch with them please do. All you have to do is direct them to this website. Thanks Trina xxx
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Hi john. Which paper did you try? Maybe if a few people e mail about KCF they may take it more seriously. If you get back and tell me which one I will drop them an e mail pointing in the direction of this site. And maybe other people if they are willing can do the same. AJG I think there definatly should be a kind of watch dog for these independent churches. Like an independent body whom you
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just for the record. I am definatly not a christian. I believe in God but not as other people may do. I don't believe he answers prayers or interferes with our lives at all. What would justice look like? I could imagine it to be ugly. I would imagine it would feel pretty great tho. To see them held accountable for the things they have done.How far are you all willing to go to shut this
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What would we have to prove to the charity comission to get their charity status removed? I don't think mistraetment of the flock is enough. I think we should tip of a local news paper about this site. They will then hopefully inform the people of Kirkby to what is in their midst. And then we could do the charity thing. People are not going to accidently stray upon this site. A bit in a
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I love Billy T. Out of every christian I have ever met, Billy is the only one who never judged me for leaving the fellowship,he had patience even when I would make him feel unwelcome when he would come and see my mum and dad. He knew I was pregnant with Callum before I admitted it to any one. He told me Callum was my gift from god. Even tho he was concieved out of wedlock. And he was right, not o
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I know what you mean firefly, I do try to laugh a lot of it off.Friends who have known me for yonks, when I would tell them about my family being in a cult they would all have a good laugh, but I am sure they would be sooo shocked to read this. I do agree that you should get on with your life you have done the hardest part and that is leaving that god awful place. The rest of your life is your ow
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David you are right about my age and the other things. That to this day affects my confidence. It definately made it harder to socialise. I would either be withdrawn or overdo it because all I wanted was acceptance. That is were drugs and drink came into the picture because it gives you fake confidence. You have to unprogramme what they make you feel about yourself. It has took me the best part o
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Yes Cheryl and my self had a masturbation talk at Beths house meeting.
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BBheryl, I am sorry for what happened to you. I don't ever remember a letter being read out at a meeting tho. I was acused of being a gossip and a slanderer. But my humiliation was not done in front of the whole church. It was done in kennelwood avenue. After about two hours of me denying and them threatening me with destruction. It ended with the other person involved and myself being broug
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Hiya. Another one from me just while I think on. If anyone else was brought up in the fellowship, did you find talking about the end times in sunday scool when we where in the building at "the college" terryfying. I got the heeby jeebies all the time. And you know what, I can still sing the 66 books of the bible (talk about brain washed). And just a general question to anyone who rememb
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oliverfabulous welcome .I do remember that incident in the pyramid room. It was probably the worse thing for that poor guy to go through. But praying for people to be handed over to satan has got to be witchcraft hasn't it ? Flower I hope my comment to polarbear did not put you of this site. Truly I am a peace loving hippy chick and I really believe I was in order. If I have caused any of
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Hello everyone. Just a quick one polar bear. Not only are we not on the same page, I don't even think we are in the same book. And that is all I am going to say about your posting! I will be really honest now. And I know some of you will not see things my way,but that is fine, everybody deserves thier own beliefs. I always believed there was a God. I never really bought the Jesus stor
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I did post something before. Don,t know where it has gone too.Maybe i have broke a rule or something? Posted it about 5.30
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I wish we could all meet up. Maybe seeing faces from the past whom are in the same places and trying to heal would be a help. A big mental hug to everyone, the people i know and the people whom i can't figure out who yet. Because a hug can go a long way especially if they have been in similar places. In response to the comments of Polar Bear and onlyme, no-one has acted in a manner which
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I did not realize how angry i still am till i wrote my last post. Is there anyway to shut them down legally. It has got to be better than some of my other nefarious plots against them. If not using the law against them could we not perhaps use the media against them almost like a national warning. A newspaper, a magazine? Or maybe a good old fashioned protest about abuse in church. I know it is c
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Hello Everybody on this forum. I am so sorry you have all been through this. I am an ex member of the fellowship. It has affected my whole family including myself. And we are all still picking up the peices and life will never be the same again.. I was practically raised in the fellowship, it was my family. I was subjected to what i can only describe as serious mental abuse. I was only Thirteen
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