"Some of us have been staunch in a practice of “non judgement”, when sometimes it was judgement that was needed to keep us safe."
Very much agreed. I fell into non-judgment early on. Jiddu Krishnamurti's extensive but sometimes confusing commentaries about the topic make it clear that while complete openness to empirical observation is very useful, there's definitely a plac
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Recovery from Destructive Cults and Groups