Another post from Safe Sheep: Church Abuse Awareness, this time about Billy Graham's grandson.
"Women....... use the church for entertainment and friends. Do not use it for anything that is personal."
Tullian doesn’t believe there is a power differential or professional boundaries between pastor and congregant. Sex is consensual between pastor and congregant above the age 17. This just sends chills up my spine. I think many pastors deep down believe this even if they publicly say the opposite. Women take notice!!
If only I had understood the lack of enforceable professional boundaries I would have sought out a licensed counselor to talk to. I believed pastors (especially ones with biblical counseling degrees) were a safe and ethical option to be vulnerable with. Nothing is further from the truth!!!!! If you wouldn’t share it with a male neighbor DON’T share it with a clergy person.!!!
Women....... use the church for entertainment and friends. Do not use it for anything that is personal.
In TLWF, men, women and children were taught to SUBMIT, SUBMIT
This is a recipe for disaster. Never again!