Can I survive a trip to the Landmark Forum?
Date: October 20, 2004 12:37AM
Hello Questioning Minds,
You answered your own question about what you should be doing when it comes down to the "Relationship" in itself, by saying [b:16bb8fe58b]"Even outside the world of LM anyone that lays an ultimatum down like that deserves to be kicked to the curb.[/b:16bb8fe58b] True, no one should be forcing anything upon anyone and no one should be doing everything and anything someone asks, just in order to keep them.
You also said, [b:16bb8fe58b]"I have managed to fight it off for a few months, either I go to the forum or our relationship will be "completed". [/b:16bb8fe58b]That in itself should be telling you, that she is trying to recruit you, and has no interest in you or a relationship with you, unless you are part of Landmark!!!! Put feelings aside, and focus on "either I go to the forum or our relationship will be "completed". Think back to when you were a kid, remember these words "You're not my friend, if you don't do it". You're an adult now!!!! Do you actually need to be doing things, just in order to keep someone??? Completed???? Strange term, to use for ending a relationship, sounds more like a term used to terminate a contract or a deal.
You wrote [b:16bb8fe58b]"The strange part is that I do have many friends that have gone through the LMF some of whom have done nothing and others that just keep going. Prior to this only one of them had been at me to go but in a peaceful, non-threatening way. With these people, I do have good conversations that keep me thinking"[/b:16bb8fe58b]
Tempting huh? Curious? Think about drugs!!! The effect drugs give, is not the same to everyone. Some get hooked and go back for more,, Some don't and it becomes a one time experience,, Some the effect can be deadly!!!!! Are you someone that will try drugs, because your friend tells you, he had such a great trip on it, or are you someone that has enough information about the possible effects of it, and turns your back on them? This is your life.... Ready to risk on the possibilities of the effects????
I think there is enough information on this site telling you what Landmark is, how Landmarkians think and what Landmarkians do. If you came this far in asking questions, then gut-feeling is telling you something!!!!
Question:
- How did you meet her?
- How early in the relationship was "Landmark" mentioned?
- When you write, you've been fighting it for a few months, what is being
said to you?
- You wrote she was heavy into Landmark, where is she at in it?
I lost my b/f, 4 months ago after he met a Landmarkian that was in the process of "Creating for herself the Possibility of being in a Relationship",,, He went to the "Forum" seminar out of curiosity,,, let me tell you, I saw and am seeing the effects of what she and those 4 days are doing to him. The worse part, he doesn't see it,,,,,,