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ExLand
Hi Amhebera
I did the landmark forum in Nov last year. I 'got it' on the Saturday morning of the seminar. On the Sunday evening after the 'empty and meaningless' bit I started decompensating. I ended up suffering from psychosis, and had a complete mental breakdown. During the psychosis I had a car accident and was hospitalised for two nights. I was sedated for another 2 days after the last night in high care in hospital and ended up in a psychiatric clinic for another nine days. The dellusions continued for another two months after I was released. I have since researched landmark and the techniques it uses. Basically I have discovered that they use a variety of psychological manipulation methods, these include covert hypnosis, neuro-linguistic programming, cognitive dissonance, and thought reform. What they do is dangerous, and they offer no professional help or advice for people who attend there seminars and suffer ill effects such as myself. I believe that what they do is criminal. All they are interested in is getting more money from unsuspecting victims.
Exland
Hi Exland,
I'm sorry to hear your story. It sounds intense. Have you considered pursuing legal action? You might have a case, considering this was relativly recent and you can document a series of events. I realize that there's probably all these agreements they have people sign that "you take full responsibility" blah blah, but that kind of agreement isn't iron clad. You can clearly state that the long hours and unexpected results led to suffering and you may be able to make a case. I'm honestly not sure how legal stuff works, but you might consider looking into it.
I also agree with you that Landmark is dangerous and that they offer no professional help or advice.
And, I can certainly understand how the "empty and meaningless" talk can have a negative effect on somebody. It wasn't one of the parts of the weekend that I enjoyed, but the person I sat next to had her "pop" when we discussed that and she and I are still friends.
I'm curious led you to sign up. Did you have a friend ask you to do it, or something else?
On a personal note, I may as well tell you that my experience at the weekend was still a positive one, and the general feeling I got was that many people there had a fun weekend, but I don't think that everyone did.
To me, the question that runs through my head, and the reason I came to this thread is simply this. I don't know if "landmark is helpful" or is it just a rush of experiences that one could get taking extacy. To me, that's the question.
I personally don't regret the $440 I spent on that weekend. I took it as a kind of supplemental experience. I'd been involved in a cult that was more intense and demanding than landmark many years ago, which. Like many cults, the one I'd been involved in had both good and bad sales points.
But my having had that experience of being involved in something deeply and even being brainwashed in my early 20s, I didn't find landmark to be that pressurized, difficult or new. It was in fact, more interesting and more professional than I anticiapted. I'm sure many here will take exception to that, but it was just my experience. There was pressure, salesmanship, psychobabble - all that silly stuff, but overall, having been told horror stories about Landmark, my experience was that it was fun.
and I appologize to you if this seems insensitive. It's not my wish to be rude or insensitive. Just to have discussion.