I even told her that we should go get counseling with someone who has knowledge with the working of these groups and can explain it better than I can. I feel very much out of my element with this and think it would help.
I think this is a great idea. The two therapists I've tried both spout stupid, irrational, new-age crap (stuff like The Secret <gag>). My current therapist tells us that "energy flows where attention goes". I'm interested in ways to find therapists who know about lgats/psychological manipulation. I'm not sure there are very many, which is troublesome to me. Any ideas how to find those who are? Anyone?
The story about your wife being two minutes late is sickening. Lgats are cold-hearted to the core. Inhuman and brutal. I remember when I was involved, an "excuse" like traffic would have been turned against us too. There is no such thing . . . afterall, we create our reality. All such happenings only point to one thing: what utter failures and losers we are, which is why we need to keep going back to the lgat for "help", i.e. to be further abused so that we'll need to keep going back for "help". When I went to cour$e #4 Randy Revell berated me for coming back (coming back meant that I had FAILED - to stay on purpose). There is no way to win in an lgat.