Leadership in a LGAT - this example from Landmark
Date: January 29, 2006 03:15AM
Wow nettie your memory is incredible, I had truely forgotten that stupid homework from the first weekend.
I sometimes wish I had had the guts to leave when I started this programme. I remember sitting in the first weekend when we got the challenge to leave, three people left and I wanted to leave realising that this wasn't what I wanted but I stayed and some how I convinced myself that this is what i wanted.
I signed the "ethical" agreements that is I agreed to follow the law and my coach pointed out to our team of four that this meant waiting for the green man when crossing the road, tidying my house and life and doing all the homework we were assigned.
And for the next six months I did just that. Anything landmark told me to do I did. I worked my normal job and in my lunch breaks my "buddy" who worked near by would meet me and we would read and attempt to remember the massess of information we were expected to learn for the second weekend. This included a booklet on how to answer peoples questions about landmark, (this is how every gets the one answer), plus reading all the "positive" press releases and other printed matter that got us to see landmark was so good, and finally learning the introduction.
I dont think any one can reliase the depth of commitment people put in unless they are doing the introduction leader programme (as it is now called) or have a spouse doing it.
An average week would like this for me:
Sunday - housework (gotta get it clean so I can have an introduction), meeting with ILP team of four to read the introduction together and help each other learn it.
Monday - work, meeting buddy for lunch to review everything, landmark assisting after work till 9pm then travel home, usually stopping for a drink on the way to relax before i do my school planning for work
Tuesdasy - breakfast meeting with team and coach, this involved getting up at 5am to get to another city to have breakfast and confirm I was keeping my ethical agreements. work then meet buddy for lunch and review stuff again then if there was a "graduation" i would be at that
Wednesday - work, work meeting and an introduction at my home or a friends place
Thursday - work, meet buddy for lunch, assisting at the landmark office till 9pm
Friday - work, meeting for dinner with team and then ILP Classroom (a chance to be abused by the ILP Leader) once ILP finished around 1 or2am it was off for a drink with everyone else
Saturday - Assising in the landmark office all day - attempting to register people in the landmark forum by phone (one of the requirements to become an introduction leader. Ringing people to invite them to my next introduction in the hope I would register so many people because I needed to, to become an introduction leader.
landmark literally fills up your life. One of the hardest things I found when I left landmark is that I had all this time free. I was working full time, earning more then I had with landmark but I had so much time. i was home at 4.30pm and had nothing to do and weekends were so empty.
Its possibly one of the hardest things to deal with and one which I suggest leads so many people back to landmark because you realise that all your friends and relationships and everything is revolved around landmark