I think I said this at some point earlier, so to reiterate, my Sterling ex told me there are two kinds of women: The kind you marry, and the kind you take to Vegas for the weekend. He made it pretty clear to me that he thought that men shouldn't have to be monogamous.
Hi N Drew
I was hoping you might post again here. You mentioned in another post that you had a letter? Invitation to a Men's Weekend? If I have that right and if you could would you please post it here? Maybe that is asking alot, and if so, I completely understand but sometimes when things are seen in black and white they make an impression.
I totally agree with you and tiggerwil. It may somewhat depend on the personality of the man involved but my gut tells me from what I have read in different places that none of them are likely to spank another guy for doing it. There may well have been a glitch of this kind already...though no one thinks it was anything physical ( not even me). Just an ongoing flirtation.
Of course you don't live half a century without knowing that where there is smoke there is sure to be a flame at some point.
thanks for your input