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Correct, Vera- the girls were married off and had babies--easily controlled- groomed to follow orders and be docile - to SERVE
A healthy baby who receives "good enough" mothering can be expected to grow up, acquire increasing ability to tolerate frustration, increasing ability to empathize with others, become capable of relating with others outside the family. A healthy baby who is given "good enough" mothering and good enough parenting grows up into someone who has patience, respects other persons, and can clean up after him or herself.
By contrast, an infallible God-guru such as Chris Butler starts his career with some adult skills but regresses ever more into babyhood while preserving the appearance of adulthood.
A young mother bears a heavy burden if she is newly married to a stranger, must give care and attention to a genuine baby plus give her unquestioning obedience to a guru whom she is taught is God but who is actually a delusional person who, thanks to adulation wealth and a submissive entourage is regressing into babyhood.
Look at Butler throwing raging tantrums because he did not get his mangoes for breakfast. This is an baby disguised as an adult, folks. Only thing missing for Butler is chinchilla lined diapers with gold and diamond safety pins.
Ominously, a Chris Butler type guru is like a toddler who never grows up, a Chris Butler type guru regresses into infancy, demanding yet more attention, yet more servicing from disciples, rather than less.
A person like this will have difficulty facing up to old age, let alone the need to designate a successor.
guru is a baby who never grows up. An infallible guru's demands become more expensive and bizarre as time passes. That guru's character is ever more corrupted by power and "entourage fever".
Imagine having both a real baby and a man-baby guru demanding your attention -- and a husband chosen for you.
Most women become sleepless and exhausted when pregnant; it is safe to say that 100% become exhausted when the baby is born and needs their care.
And when a woman is dealing with an adult baby (Chris Butler) plus her own pregnancy and motherhood, it would take little short of a miracle for her to recognize she is in a prison and needs to escape.
TO admit she needs to escape from
both her guru and the husband the guru imposed upon her.
It is horrible to face that one has made a mistake to marry a person; yet more
painful to dare imagine one has made a mistake to marry someone after having
become pregnant or a new mother.
(I call "entourage fever" the deterioration of character brought about by being waited upon and all one's demands met instantly. Whatever patience a person has will usually be lost once that person acquires a stable of personal assistants who
service his or her every when. When your demands are met instantly, your capacity for patience diminishes, the way muscles weaken when not used.)
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 04/21/2016 09:06PM by corboy.