Gurus do all they can to drive away confident, skeptical people.
Anyone who is disgusted and walks out, serves the guru's purpose, because the guru
wants to be rid of such persons, they spoil the mood.
PapajisaysNO recommended a YouTube video.
Take time to read the comments - good stuff.
One comment may describe the process by which many of us get entangled in
It also explains why so many of us "can't just leave" abusive relationships.
Do remember too, people (men and women) who are attracted to the narcissistic personality were ..more than likely, raised by a narc, either mother or father. They were SET UP, Trained..if you like..to live within these boundaries.
That makes it harder for them to "see" what's happening and then to "change" their circumstances.
Please warn people, if you're in this situation and your partner is obviously narcissistic personality disorder, then realize you could be staying inside of the relationship bec/ of your NEED to be tightly controlled. Being tightly controlled is what you're accustomed to, to you, it means "love". Being a more submissive person was the way you were trained to please your parent. Pleasing the narc partner is NOT different. Its very convoluted...NOT always straightforward.?
Corboy - Dead Heron Society
Edited 3 time(s). Last edit at 04/29/2019 10:16AM by corboy.