Re: sphinxspiritual.com.au Ian and Pearl Rogers
Date: March 12, 2022 03:40AM
My name is Chali and I have recently been made aware of this post made by “nooon" on March 11 2022 and I believe this to be my ex-partner Francois Vogelsberger. A small detail but we were never married so the very first sentence of his post contains a lie.
I fought for our relationship for over 6 years, truly believing that it was based on love and honesty and that we had a wonderful family life together with our children. The ending of our relationship was absolutely nothing to do with Sphinx and to say that is the reason I made this huge decision to leave a loveless relationship is frankly insulting. It took a huge amount of courage on my part to make this decision. I believed it was a respectful and mutual decision, until I found out that I had been betrayed by Francois for many months. He had spread vicious lies about me joining a “cult”, not having the courage to address these thoughts with me himself but instead speaking behind my back to gain support. To say that I have joined a “cult” is absolutely insulting. Sphinx is not a cult. I choose to learn and study with Sphinx because it enriches my life. I am a loving and devoted mother to my children and have a better relationship with my extended family than ever before thanks to my own self-development.
Francois has a job that takes him overseas for weeks at a time and whilst he travels he knowingly agrees to contribute for our children to be cared for by a friend of mine who is also associated with Sphinx. He is absolutely aware of this association and actually asks me to contact her for child minding purposes.
The decision that my children and I have made together to move 45 minutes away from where we currently live is one that Francois and I dreamed about for many years prior to our separation.
This decision is one made equally by my children and myself to open up new opportunities in life, a decision based on improving our lifestyle as we feel the area lends itself to a more relaxed and nourishing existence, closer to nature and a really great school for the children. I have been respectfully discussing and negotiating with Francois about how we can make this work to suit us all.
This post he has written behind my back, again, accusing me of making this decision based on a fabrication of his mind, is self-serving, manipulative, dishonest and must be out of revenge as he can no longer control me. I am once again shocked, hurt and disappointed. Francois is taking no accountability for his actions which contributed to our separation. His post is not only revengeful to me, but to every person that is associated with the Sphinx organisation.