The seductiveness of chartered jets and luxury
Posted by: corboy ()
Date: July 14, 2011 06:15AM

While reading up on another news item, this was written by someone in one of the comments.

Oh and a note on private jet charter flying: I've done it a few times and it's a whole other world of travel.

From the moment you step aboard to the time whn you step off your plane and into a waiting, pre-heated or pre-cooled town car at the private part of the airport, you know you've hit the big time.

No TSA. No rude anybody.

The luxury of the moment is all around you, and you have to know this from day one: Somebody, in this case, some charity, some service group, is paying the big bucks, and you're a rockstar. All this is to say: There's absolutely no friggin way X (the person discussed in the article for using his philanthropy as a personal ATM)didn't know what he was doing was way wrong.

[www.bozemandailychronicle.com]

Take a careful look at the gurus and new age/human potential 'rockstars' who fly in chartered jets, have their own cars, entourages, luxury suites.

This kind of living is addictive.

One gets dependent on it, feels entitled to it if one has it for a long enough time.

Now..anyone who gets addicted to this sort of pampering, who answers only those questions he or she selects to answer--how can such a person presume to teach those of us who dont live life in an entourage, eh?

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Re: The seductiveness of chartered jets and luxury
Posted by: walter1963 ()
Date: July 16, 2011 01:24PM

Even worse such people in the corporate or cult world are surround by sycophants and pod people who agree with everything that comes out of the executive's or guru's mouth.

Talk about a echo chamber. Put anyone in such a environment and they will get a god complex in no time.

The business world is full of such people. More obvious cases is where some executive gets a "cult following" despite being a horrific person known for making bad decisions. Arthur Diekman's work "Wrong way home" explores some of this. Cartoonist Scott Adam's in some of his books and strips often exposes these people and their insane decisions based on their isolation from the real world.

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Re: The seductiveness of chartered jets and luxury
Posted by: corboy ()
Date: July 16, 2011 09:34PM

Another person who appeared to have been ill with what I call 'entourage disease'.

Though this person was content to be a sort of private guru to selected rich and famous persons, the mechanics of how he cobbled together a mythologized self image melted away after being fact checked is no different from how very many other, more commercial gurus and cult leaders do it.

The ancients had a proverb that those whom the gods destroy they first make mad.

In this age of addiction to mythologized public image, I would suggest the proverb be adjusted:

Those whom the gods destroy are the ones who are addicted to mythologized heroes and heroines that fail to fact check when a charismatic bloke or bird comes to town with a fresh new story.

Remember these people always have a story. Lots and lots of stories. They are fascination technicians.

Found this interesting because in college, in a psychology class, I had to watch a film about the work of CG Jung narrated by Laurens van der Post. He stood at the table around which the Eranos conferance discussions were held, gushing about it all.

Post implied he and Jung had been sort of master and disciple, and his tone was so obsequious and sugary that I cringed and felt enraged that I had to watch this shit as part of a university class.

Now, it turns out the Jung association was more in van der Posts imagination than in reality. But the psych department faculty at my quite good university were beguiled enough to have rented or purchased that piece of junk.

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[www.independent.co.uk]

Storyteller: the many lives of Laurens van der Post by JDF Jones

Soldier, explorer, philosopher, author, liar


For tens of millions, Laurens van der Post – soldier, explorer, author, philosopher, conservationist, "white bushman" – was a modern Diogenes, his every thought to be absorbed. And no one thought more of Laurens van der Post than the great man himself. From the forging of his early CV, when he claimed to have passed out as a military cadet "exceptional in every way", until his death in 1996, the ego never landed.

When applying for charitable status for a foundation whose main purpose seemed to be to enable the elderly Afrikaner to continue to gad about the globe first-class promulgating his view of the natural order, he likened himself to Plato, Socrates and Jesus Christ. He was piqued that he never won the Nobel prize, for which he felt amply qualified.

But, eventually, even legends fall. This biography undoes the deception. Every detail of his life is dissected and then dismissed; time after time, it is demonstrated that the author of countless autobiographies just made things up. Rarely a paragraph goes by without the exposure of a falsehood. Poor JDF Jones must have scoured the thesaurus to find different ways to describe a simple lie – inaccurate, evasive, embroidered, exaggerated...

For Laurens, nothing was beyond distortion; his lies were both petty and grand. He said he was awarded Best Kept Small Farm in a local show for his efforts in raising dairy cattle in Gloucestershire in the 1930s and that he was an intimate of CG Jung and Lord Mountbatten. Nor did he only lie to make the public adore him; he lied to those with whom he was most private. In 1942 he wrote to Ingaret Gifford, soon to be his wife, that he had been promoted to acting major in the Abyssinian campaign, when he was only a captain. In a rare moment of candour, he once wrote to a friend: "I no longer know where my life ends and the story begins."

More interesting than why Laurens lied is why we chose to believe him. He could have been exposed so easily. His heroic account of saving his men from the Japanese in wartime Java was challenged by a Dutch witness in a report published in Holland in 1985. Reports that the moral crusader had raped a 15-year-old girl in his charge, who subsequently had his child, were sat on for more than five years by the Daily Mail until after his death.

We all knew but chose not to know. Interviewer after interviewer took him at his word. Even something that was as simple to check as his claim to be the linchpin in the Lancaster House agreement on Zimbabwean independence was not questioned. When I phoned Lord Carrington in 1997, he confirmed: "Sir Laurens really didn't play a role in the Lancaster House agreement." Why had that call not been made earlier?

We needed to believe Van der Post. He pandered to a part of the Western imagination that longs for the so-called natural – a pristine wilderness and untouched primitives – as long as it's not here and not us. Jones puts it more simply: "We were all grateful to be enchanted."

If his biography has a fault, it's an eagerness to destroy the subject too soon. There is no slow unwinding of deceit, so no tension. By the final few pages, Jones seems to be tiring of his own relentless attack. He makes one last attempt to rescue Laurens, saying it would have been a disservice to his memory to tell anything but the whole truth. But Laurens deplored the truth, fearful that it would contaminate the legend.

He would not be grateful for this thorough unmasking. Jones has murdered the reputation of a man who was described as having "the spiritual presence of a saint", and his regrets come a little late. The final words on the old man's friends – "they all loved him" – fail to save us from not only doubting, but despising, him.

This is a fine biography, unlikely to be surpassed in its doggedness and devotion to turning every stubborn stone. Perhaps it will make us just a shade more sceptical of those who set themselves up as a people's philosopher, a guru, a moral crusader. But I doubt it.

Dea Birkett

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[www.newstatesman.com]


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Re: The seductiveness of chartered jets and luxury
Posted by: corboy ()
Date: July 16, 2011 09:45PM

Decided to quote in full the New York Times story on Laurens van der Post, this modern Cagliostro, intimate to Prince Charles and reportedly friends of Magaret Thatcher.

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Master Storyteller or Master Deceiver?
By DINITIA SMITH
Published: August 03, 2002
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HE was a spellbinding storyteller, a figure of mesmerizing charm. The South African-born writer Sir Laurens van der Post, who died in 1996 at 90, sold millions of copies of his novels and nonfiction books, including ''The Lost World of the Kalahari,'' about the plight of the South African Bushmen, which became a popular BBC television series.

Van der Post was a Jungian mystic and a spiritual adviser to Prince Charles; according to British newspapers, he taught the prince to talk to his plants.

In 1982 Charles made him godfather to his heir, Prince William. Van der Post was also a close friend of Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, exerting an influence on her policy in South Africa.

He had a following in the United States as well. For several years, he gave the Advent sermon at the Cathedral of St. John the Divine in New York. The year he died, he attended a celebration of his work in Boulder, Colo., and 4,000 people came.

But according to a new biography, ''Teller of Many Tales: The Lives of Laurens van der Post,'' by the British journalist J. D. F. Jones, published here last month by Carroll & Graf, van der Post was a fraud who deceived people about everything from the amount of time he actually spent with the Bushmen to his military record during World War II. His claim that he had brokered the settlement in the Rhodesian civil war was a lie as was his insistence that he was a close friend of Jung's, Mr. Jones says.

And when it came to women, der Post was a bounder. In the early 1950's, when he was 46, he seduced the 14-year-old daughter of a wealthy South African winemaking family, who had been entrusted to his care during a sea voyage. She became pregnant, and although he sent her a small stipend, he never publicly acknowledged the daughter born of the relationship.

''I discovered to my astonishment that not a single word he ever wrote or ever said could necessarily be believed,'' Mr. Jones said in an interview from his home in Somerset, England. ''He was a compulsive fantasist.''

When ''Teller of Many Tales'' was published in Britain last year, under the title ''Storyteller: The Many Lives of Laurens van der Post,'' it created a mini-sensation.

The book had a gleeful reception in many British newspapers. The reviewer for The Economist of London called the book ''hilarious.''

The Daily Telegraph said it was ''bold, brilliantly researched and fascinating,'' though a critic for The Spectator dissented, calling it ''an utterly ruthless hatchet job.'' Lucia Crichton-Miller, van der Post's daughter, also offered a passionate defense of her father. ''I think it a profoundly dishonest book,'' she said from London. ''The worst is the malign selection of evidence.''

Mr. Jones knew van der Post slightly, he said, and had been an admirer of his early work. ''You have never in your life met a man so charming,'' he said. ''It was staggering.''

When van der Post was in his late 80's, Mr. Jones proposed writing his biography, but van der Post didn't want one while he was still alive. After his death, Mr. Jones approached Ms. Crichton-Miller, who had been a colleague of his at The Financial Times of London, where he was an editor. Ms. Crichton-Miller agreed to cooperate with him and provided access to her father's archives.

The lies began with the stories of his childhood, Mr. Jones said, in books like ''Venture to the Interior,'' his 1951 best-selling account of his travels in Nyasaland (today Malawi), interwoven with Jungian mysticism.

Van der Post claimed descent from minor Dutch aristocracy, and said that his father had been a senior statesman and a high-ranking barrister, a ''kind of prime minister.'' In fact, Mr. Jones says, his father came from a family of minor distinction and was a lower-status law agent who processed routine legal documents.

In ''The Lost World of the Kalahari'' and other writings, van der Post claimed to have had a Bushman, sometimes a half-Bushman, nanny, from whom he derived his special, instinctive knowledge of the group. In fact, Mr. Jones says, there is no record of such a person, and van der Post did not encounter the Bushmen, the indigenous people of South Africa, until he was an adult.

He spent about two weeks with them despite assertions that he lived among them.

In his writings, van der Post depicted the Bushmen as primitive, instinctual, childlike, whereas white men were logical, reasonable, intellectual. In ''The Lost World of the Kalahari,'' published in 1958, van der Post claimed he had discovered the Bushman paintings of the Tsodilo Hills, when in fact they had been well-known to Europeans for close to 50 years, Mr. Jones writes.

Van der Post also lied to the women in his life, Mr. Jones says. He juggled affairs with numerous women simultaneously, keeping them secret from one another. In 1934, he settled in England with his first wife, Marjorie, and his son, John, on a farm probably bought for him with money from the Queen Mother's cousin Lilian Bowes Lyon, with whom he was having a relationship.

In 1936, the same year his first daughter, Lucia, was born, van der Post met Ingaret Giffard on a boat to South Africa. In 1938 he sent Marjorie and his two children to South Africa with the argument that war was imminent. He didn't see his children for nearly 10 years. He and Marjorie eventually divorced, and he married Ingaret after the war. They lived together even after she became ill with dementia in later life, though for 30 years he also had a mistress, Frances Baruch.

In books about his war experiences, and his autobiography, van der Post cast himself as a war hero. His trio of autobiographical novellas, ''The Seed and the Sower,'' about being a prisoner of war in a Japanese prison camp was the basis for the 1983 David Bowie movie ''Merry Christmas, Mr. Lawrence.''

In 1942 van der Post, then an acting captain, was captured by the Japanese in Java. In books and speeches, he claimed he volunteered for an extra beating to save his fellow prisoners, but that account was also disputed in written statements by some of his fellow prisoners, said Mr. Jones. Van der Post also said that after the Allied victory, he had been ''military governor of Batavia,'' in Java, now part of Indonesia, but he was not, Mr. Jones says.

Regarding Mr. Jones's assertions about her father's war record, Ms. Crichton-Miller said: ''All I can say is that throughout my life I have met people who were in the prisoner-of-war camp in Java who said they did not know how they would have lived without my father.''

And as far as the amount of time her father actually spent living with the Bushmen, said Ms. Crichton Miller, ''J. D. F. misses the point of my father. What my father did was give poetic force to the Bushmen.''

''He was not pretending to be an anthropologist or a scientist,'' Ms. Crichton Miller said. ''I think there is no doubt that he didn't want to spell it out that he had been there only a few weeks.''

She also disputed Mr. Jones's assertion that her father had not been an intimate of Jung's, pointing to the observation of a member of Jung's inner circle, Barbara Hannah, that van der Post and Jung had been very close friends. As for Mr. Jones's allegations about her father's relationship with a 14-year-old girl,

''I'm afraid I think that's true,'' Ms. Crichton-Miller said. ''He was not a saint. He hurt people. He hurt me. But by God, he was fascinating.''

Bonny Kohler-Baker, whom van der Post seduced and abandoned when she was 14, is the mother of van der Post's other daughter. She now lives outside New York City under a different name, and would not discuss the book. But her daughter, Cari Mostert, in a phone interview from the Eastern Transvaal in South Africa, said she had been brought up to believe that her maternal grandmother was her mother and that her mother was her sister. She said her grandmother had told her when she was 10 that van der Post was her father. Ms. Mostert described meeting her father for the first time when she was 12, when she and her mother had surprised him in Los Angeles, where he had a speaking engagement: ''I was crying, and he was crying.''

Ms. Mostert said she had confronted him once again, as he arrived in Johannesburg airport, and he had said that her grandmother had lied in saying that she was his daughter. She claimed that she had sent her father over 50 letters, but that he had never replied. ''I thought he is such an upright, a noble human being,'' Ms. Mostert said, ''if he would only understand . . . '' Her voice trailed off.

the 1970's van der Post met Prince Charles through mutual friends. In 1987 he took Charles on a four-day trip to the Kalahari, telling the prince, ''This is the real Africa.'' Mr. Jones states that sometime in the mid-70's, Charles began having psychoanalytic treatment with Ingaret, who was a Jungian analyst, and then with van der Post's friend Dr. Alan McGlashan.

Diana, Princess of Wales, was also treated by Dr. McGlashan during the troubles in her marriage, Mr. Jones writes.

Charles told van der Post his dreams, and van der Post drafted some of his speeches. When van der Post died, Charles set up an annual lecture in his honor.

But van der Post's most significant influence occurred during the South African struggle over apartheid, Mr. Jones says. Van der Post hated Nelson Mandela and championed the Zulu chief Mangosuthu Buthelezi, whom he saw as a foil for the African National Congress's Communist beliefs. He arranged meetings between Chief Buthelezi, Charles and Mrs. Thatcher.

Mr. Jones argues that van der Post had helped convince Mrs. Thatcher to oppose sanctions against the South African government and not to embrace Mr. Mandela.

As van der Post lay dying, Mr. Jones says, Charles visited him. At his memorial service, Lady Thatcher read the lesson and Chief Buthelezi spoke. Nonetheless, Mr. Jones writes, there were apparently some who doubted van der Post even when he was alive.

Mr. Jones says that when a doctor who knew him was asked the cause of his death, the doctor replied, ''He was weary of sustaining so many lies.''

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Re: The seductiveness of chartered jets and luxury
Posted by: three ()
Date: July 16, 2011 09:52PM

i suppose that the very idea of wealth can go to a mans/ womans head and they get caught up in it

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