Hey, Clarity7! Yeah, I was in for just over 20 years, and I know what you're talking about. At first, they love-bomb the hell out of you - it seems like they've never met someone so interesting, insightful, intelligent, fascinating, or likable! They'll immediately want to exchange phone numbers, invite you to other activities, try and make plans to get together to chant, etc.
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