Oh Jeri442, I really feel for the price that you have paid.
My only suggestion for your husband is that perhaps you could print out a copy of what you have written and send it to him. I don't think for a moment that it will magically undo everything, but it might be a help in the right direction.
All the best to you. Keep on telling your story to anyone who will listen.
John
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Large Group Awareness Training, "Human Potential"