HELP ME!!! this girl thinks I am her warewolf cub sister!!!!
Date: October 23, 2004 09:42PM
If she calls, or comes to your door, do NOT let her in or talk to her.
Dont answer the door, even if she's wailing. If necessary call the police. You want to avoid a situation where you're alone together, she doesnt like what you say or do, then falsely accuses you of assault.
Without witnesses, in a situation like that, a man is at a horrible disadvantage.
You have to protect yourself & your social reputation.
1) Do not go with her alone--EVER. If she cries and says she has a medical emergency, she should call the ambulance, not you.
2) Dont talk with her on the phone. If necessary get an answering machine message that has a fake recording instead of your real voice. Obsessed people sometimes keep calling your number just to hear your recorded voice.
3)**Go to your student advisor AND go to student mental health services at your campus and tell them about this clingy girl. You want to get proof on paper that you're concerned about her welfare.
Reason for this is in case you try to break up with her, she may accuse you of doing something to hurt her, so you have to get proof on paper by going to people at your school that you're the one concerned for her welfare.
DONT TRY TO REASON WITH HER. DO NOT TALK WITH HER OR MEET WITH HER EVEN IF SHE BEGS.
*If she cries and does any threat to harm herself, tell her she has to talk to a doctor, that her problems are too big for you to handle. But the best thing is talk to someone first before you get to this point with her.
If you cant talk to anyone at student mental health services or a student advisor over the weekened, go to the campus police (their office has to be open on weekends) and tell them your concerns. They may have additional advice. Do something, anything to get it on paper.
She's clingy and is using supestitious reasoning to justify it. If she didnt believe in psychic powers or werewolves, she'd come up with other reasons to do the same thing.