Nancy B
It sounds like your son was from the same generation as someone that has written an open letter to the Living Word Fellowship. There are a number of posts from the generation, and others, that have been hurt and abused. You and your son might find it interesting, and help validate some of your thoughts. And, above all, perhaps it will bring some much needed healing. Here is the link: Itsthe fifth post down, dated October 25, 2018.
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