Hello,
When you say:
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Am I going crazy?
- yes, I can relate to your experience!!! :lol:
But seriously - I don't think you're taking this too seriously. Even without severe psychiatric casualties these organisations basically take away people's freedom and restructure their lives - all for profit.
The basic business model is they push people into making superficially attractive changes in their lives and then they hold up those people as models, walking-talking adverts for the courses. And they are most effective at brain-washing people into believing their lives have been improved even when the opposite is true.
And the pressure never ends; there is always one more course to do and if you don't want to then have to 'get over yourself' because you are 'coming from ego' and 'holding yourself back' and 'afraid of taking a risk' etc etc ad nauseum.
The courses are all nauseatingly similar so if you read any of the threads here you will pick up lots of information.
For advice on helping people who're still involved have a look under the PSI thread. Other than that all you can do is ask your ex to explicitly explain what benefit she has received, in concrete terms, and how much it has cost. One of their scams is getting people to pull their friends and families and spouses in - with disastrous consequences, as you will see if you read the PSI, Klemmer and other threads.
I don't hold out much hope for changing anyone's mind while they're involved as you're working against a very thorough and efficient brain-washing corporation. The best you can do is be her friend, gently point out the problems and in time it should wear off or the disillusion will set in naturally. Be the person she can speak to when she has doubts and make it clear you will never pull an 'I told you so' on her. Maybe other people will have more optimistic views, that's just my opinion.
PS May I ask what games / exercises they do on Summit? Do they do any of these:
- the red/black game
- dyads
- trust / hug circle
- matchstick game
- chair game
- raising hands to music as you enter the hall?
What are the key jargon words they use?
- commitment
- integrety
- agreements
- intention
- choose
- reality (you create it)
- possibility
- ?????