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sonnie_dee
This is very true. One of the things I heard a lot of was "you are enrolling everyone in your story of ill health"
I could never work that out because If i was "enrolling" surely they wouldn't keep coaching me on how I wasn't sick?
Oh Lordy....you can see how this would get just about anybody all tied up in knots if they valued their job, their position, the group of people they were with, the labor they had put into the endeavor, the future they envision with the group, etc., etc.
It is just sooooo silly. And so cruel, to do this to someone.
Not only does the person have to suffer the disease, but the "idea" that they did it to themselves. How could you possibly feel worse. It's like living with your own worst enemy - YOU. Of course, that means giving over to someone else, specifically, your "coach," who is positioned to be a better, illness-free friend to your very own pathetic self. Yikes! Manipulative, predatory, and ruthless. An "upline" exploitive "friend" who is positioned to profit from your labor, sap your energy, and suck the life out of you. All the while having you "believe" they are working in YOUR interests. Quite a trick! And absolutely disgusting.
Ellen