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BraveHeart
Thanks Nicole for sharing your story. I pray that the spiritual wounds heal quickly and that you can help rescue more.
Thanks BraveHeart,
I have so many stories. I don't even know where to begin. I will say this. When I left Radiant Life Church, I was glad to be free of the place but I was extremely angry. I couldn't even hear names of leaders there or see their faces with out getting tense and angry. Obviously I needed to handle my anger much better, because the only person that it affected was me. I am still young but I might have had a heart attack. ( semi-joking )
Then I started to search for other churches. In my search I found that I was quite arrogant and thought much to highly of myself, thinking things like " I wonder if the elder of this church even knows what a Prophetic word is" or "these people aren't Spiritual enough", etc. It stems from the thought process that RLC indeed is the only place that God shows up to. It is a wrong thought, but I had to fight these thoughts off. I know it is not just me because I would hear people say stuff like " it would be torture to leave this place" " Those other churches just don't have the spirit there." Some people might read this and say well how is that the fault of RLC or the leadership. Well good question. I heard all of those comment from leadership.
Matt Michalak hit the nail on the head when he said this is confusing as hell. Seriously I still think to myself "was it really that bad?" Then I think about all my stories and everything I have observed and I remember, Yes it was. (and probably still is) Here is the thing; I had some GREAT times at RLC and I was holding out hope that the Leadership would repent, I wanted nothing more than to continue in the ministry that I served in and loved, to see the people, that I still love by the way, to stop doing all the stuff they were and stop looking at scripture through the eyes of Tony, to see RLC become an active member of Unity among the Churches of Sacramento...I kept waiting and waiting... eventually I couldn't take the waiting anymore. I needed to become a part of something that is more like the Church that God wants.
By the way when I say that the leadership needs to repent, I don't mean to just go to individual homes blow smoke about how you know it is wrong and you are wokring on reversing the situation, then go about doing things as you were. I mean stopping the nonsense from the place it started...The pulpit, no blanket apologies. Does anybody else remember the FNW that was dedicated to introduceing "spiritual Parenting"? Tony introduced this concept and had a question and answer time. Why not have a night dedicated to start fresh, to commit to turning from the ways of the last 5 or so years and start from the start. Start fresh. It is OKAY TO BE WRONG. Just don't admit it and continue to do it!!
With much love and hope for the future,
Nicole Bianchini