What went on during Muktananda's 'reign' has producted some very insightful memoir material.
Many who seek, entering the seekers circuit and make their way to or are recruited for gurus are persons sincerely trying to find a sense of power, dignity and agency. To be told they were exploited via tantra can be so unbearable that many would rather convince themselves they were empowered and ignore their own visceral feelings that they did not feel that way at all.
And to those who love to chant 'Its always your choice, its your delusions that are the problem never the guru---
the problem with molestation rationalized as tantra is that the perpetrators such as Muktnananda did not disclose up front and in full who they actually were. Muk presented as a celibate hatha yogi who secretly went after young and malleable girls who fit his preferred pattern. There was no way to know in advance what one was in for. So, this was not a choice of 'choosing for oneself'.
Okay back to the programme.
A crucial question is, would you want your own child to go through this? THats a good test for whether you felt genuinely improved or empowered.
(Though a few persons may be so grievously harmed that they zone out as adults and dont protect their own children--which is how this kind of abuse can be repeated through generations)
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Radha Bridges describes a question from a therapist who helped her to understand.
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I shared my experience with
an incredible therapist who has lived in buddist ashrams in the past
and understands true tantra . She told me that Baba's actions were
not true tantra (true trantra elevates participates to a new level
of enlightenment). After asking me all the details about the rituals
Baba used, this therapist then asked me one last question that was
immensely powerful for me: " Knowing what you have been
through,would you now take your 10 year old daughter by the hand and
send her through that door to have the same experience that you
had?" Of course I said, "No!". My therapist said without
hesitation, "This was abuse".
Another person wrote to Radha Bridges during this dialogue and suggested
some editorial changes an author (Brooks) could make to a publication)
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Maybe yu should send it your part of the next
> edition called: "Stalking and choosing your prey."
> A. assign rooms on same floor as you
> B. have them consider this an honor
> C. send special invitation to be part of small
> chosen goup in next city
> D. get curtains with holes
> E. smack your lips and observe their coming and
> going
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Two one was supposed to do tantra only with qualified consorts who were experienced and wise practitioners--one's intellectual and yogic equals. Selecting young persons vulnerable to flattery by an older more powerful person is a travesty of this.
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One passage that especially caught my eye was Abhinavagupta’s description of the perfect Duti (literally, “Messenger”), the ideal sexual partner for the Tantric rites:
A D¨ti, necessary in the performance of the secret ritual, is to be a woman who can personify Çakti; has the eyes, rolling with intoxication;
lips red like the ripe fruit of Bimba;
teeth; face with well knit eyebrows;
eyes, beautiful like those of a fawn in fear;*
charming smile;
hair, dark like a multitude of glittering black bees;
eye-brows, bent like the bow of cupid;
complexion similar to that of melted gold;
ears, decked with ear-ornaments, beautifully engraved….13 17 Nova Religio
The passage went on to enumerate the beauty of such a Duti’s neck, rising breasts, arms, fingers, thighs, abdomen, hips, ankles, voice, and face, in the “head to foot” praise genre found in such poems as the Saundaryalahari (Ocean of Beauty, a hymn of praise to the goddess Tripurasundari).
However, I had at that time never heard of such a genre, nor had I ever read anything quite like this erotic wish-list.
The passage went on to mention that the mind of such a partner should be fully enlightened, “continually experiencing the pure bliss of identification with [God].”
While her physical attributes are desirable, the “exponents of Kaulism had realised that such a woman is extremely difficult to find,”14 and thus had placed their emphasis on the woman’s mental qualities and capacities for enlightenment by means of the secret Kaula ritual.
(Corboy comment: to me, this line 'eyes beautiful like those of a fawn in fear' gives the agenda away. How about 'eyes beautiful as a proud tigress'?
'Eyes beautiful like those of a fawn in fear' would belong to a girl or woman who would be lovely but not any threat to a man's ego--eyes beautiful like those of a frightened young deer'--how convenient.)Later, Caldwell, who was living at Muktananda's ashram noted that he had selected a girl who resembled this description.
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In those relaxed, sparsely attended afternoon audiences with Baba in August 1982, I had noticed a young Indian girl who came to darshan every day like a doe, shy as if meeting her lover. She was the most exquisite girl I had ever seen. It struck me that this young woman precisely fit the description I had read of the Duti. She seemed nervous and aroused when she came to sit at Baba’s side, shyly looking at him and then averting her eyes.
Caldwell had the honesty to admit that at that time she felt jealous, not knowing that what she was actually witnessing was a pattern of opportunistic selection, one she was later glad to have escaped. Sadly some gutter minded types sniped at Caldwell, trying to make it seem her entire article was based on jealousy when what she quite successfully did was analyse a pattern of opportunistic predation that gurus had enjoyed without accountability until women of Caldwell's acuity learned Sanskrit and exposed the old tantric texts to long overdue feminist scrutiny.
For Caldwell wrote that though tantra has a potential for wisdom,
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the authors of Meditation Revolution publicly acknowledged that the decision not to include discussion of the accusations against Muktananda was a mistake in judgment that would be corrected in any later editions of the volume. 48 Brooks in Meditation Revolution notes the tendency of the high-caste smarta Srividya commentarial tradition to “overlook discrepancies between word and deed, and read selectively to suit themselves,” remaining silent about “potential indiscretions of others” in order to protect the status of the community (179);
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Despite their diversity, these accounts bear little resemblance to the ecstatic Kaula rituals described by Abhinavagupta in his Tantraloka, and lack their most essential component, a fully aware, consenting female partner or yogini. Whatever Baba was doing, claiming it to be a form of Tantric initiation, seemed rather to retain only the bodily shell of a Tantric practice that once held out the promise of profound enlightenment experience for both the man and woman.
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Social forms that tolerate secrecy, hierarchy, and corruption can and should, I contend, be eradicated as the tradition moves to the West. I know from my field studies in Kerala that women in India suffer, and that their suffering increases when they cannot voice it or express it through meaningful spiritual outlets. There is something in the way that left-handed Tantra evolved that stinks of such oppression to me
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"The Emperor's Tantric Robes"
This article can be read on Leaving Siddha Yoga's website
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Tricycle: You ended up feeling sexually exploited? Used for personal indulgence?
Campbell: Obviously at the time and for some years afterwards I didn't think this. How could I? It would have caused me too much distress to see it in this light. It took me many years of thinking about the whole thing to see it differently, and to begin speaking about my experience. This wasn't easy. I tried through writing to understand why people rationalize these acts as beneficial, and it made me question a lot of things. I've got no doubts now that when a male teacher demands a relationship that involves secret sex, an imbalance of power, threats, and deception, the woman is exploited. You have to ask, "Where does the impulse to hide sexual behavior come from?" Especially if it happens in a system that supposedly values the sexual relationship. Of course, there are those who say they are consenusally doing secret "tantric" practices in the belief that it's helping them become "enlightened," whatever that means. That's up to them, and if they're both saying it, that's fine. But there's a difference between that and the imperative for women not to speak of the fact that they're having a sexual relationship at all. What's that all about it it's not about fear of being found out? And what lies behind that fear? These are the questions I had to ask."
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Another article by Sarah Caldwell on tantra and its secrecy
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In a book entitled
The Cave in the Snow a British born Gelugpa Buddhist nun named Tenzin Palmo, a great practitioner who did a solitary retreat in a cave in Ladkh, India for 7 years, said that one way to evaluate the behavior of masters claiming to do tantra is this:
If the purported tantra guru selects only young and beautiful partners, you can bet that he's (it is usually a he, though in rare cases women have been reported to do this) --he is just guided by ordinary lust and is rationalizing horndoggery by using tantra as an excuse. Someone who had pure view would see the Absolute in everyone and not select tantric consorts based on mere personal attractiveness and psychological docility.
The really injurious features that are usually reported from alleged tantra are
*Secrecy
* Selecting prey who are already young and possibly unable to defend themselves because without knowing it, they have already been pre-formatted by growing up in abusive households in which their bondaries as children, were not honored. THe tantric seduction is just molestation of adults who are unknowingly wounded children seeking a feeling of empowerment and agency and instead, via the misbehaving guru, subjected to a re-enactment of what was done to them as children.
Worse, the guru molestation is in a setting where all this is rationalized as spiritual and in which the guru has a protective entourage skilled at shame bullying and who love to chant 'There are no victims, its all your projection.'