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SleepingToDream
He did mention to us that there is a girl but he refuses to reveal her name or any personal information and has told us to not ask any questions. To just respect it for what it is.
Probably he doesn't even know her name. UBF's arranged marriage is sold under the name "marriage by faith." Often they marry people off to somebody they haven't even seen before and pressure members to accept such a marriage "by faith." If you need more information, please write an email to hdchris at ubf-info.de.
This also gives an answer to a question posed above, why UBF is a cult. In the beginning, there is not much abuse, but love-bombing. Then, the more you are getting dependend from them (because you start to believe they are God's servants and working for them is God's calling, and because the group starts to become your replacement family and only circle of friends), the more they pressure you to do the things they want, including marrying when and whom they decide. Most members experience a lot of spiritual abuse over time, and the longer you stay, the less it is about learning the Bible and friendship, but about obedience and what they call "training." Another reason why they are called a cult is how they deal with the huge sums of offering moneys they collect from their members.