There are a lot of misconceptions about enlightenment that crooked spiritual teachers exploit when setting up personality cults and scams. If you can identify these bogus arguments, you can protect yourself.
Emotional Battery is Not Crazy Wisdom
The archetype of the 'enlightened crazy wise master' has been debased into an all purpose manipulative tactic for con artists, narcissists and crooks.
Inflicting shock on people is a great way to mess with their boundaries, which can then be exploited to recruit the victim into your orbit. In partnered relationships this is called 'emotional battery' and has no mystical value whatsoever.
Many people who have been abused by gurus cope with the trauma by identifying with their tormenter and convince themselves that the abuse was necessary for their spiritual growth. They will insist that gurus are infallible, are exempt from normal moral guidelines and that anyone who disapproves of the abuse lacks good faith and is ‘negative.’ This is the same dynamic that abused children use when they cannot escape from a sadistic adult. They stay loyal to the adult and believe the abuse is good for them. Then they grow up to abuse their own children. Alice Miller has brilliantly analysed this pattern in The Drama of the Gifted Child and For Your Own Good: Roots of Violence in Childrearing.
Spiritual work is high risk and discernment is essential. If things go wrong, you are the one who suffers the consequences. Teachers coddled by entourages, will write you off as too weak and unevolved to 'bear the burden of discipleship'. They will ditch you and go looking for new recruits.
Misconceptions about Enlightenment
Enlightenment will not solve your problems for you or banish pain from your life. If you don’t have sanity and adult social and emotional skills, enlightenment is a booby prize. Some people have been unable to handle it and have gone crazy.
A Zen teacher said, ‘If I could become enlightened instantly, without having to practice wisdom and compassion in every day life, I would refuse. Because without the discipline of practice, I will not know what to do with enlightenment and it will not help me or anyone else.’
The ego is not the enemy. You need an ego in order to function in day to day life. The does not need to be destroyed. You bring the ego into alignment with a wider state of consciousness, but you must do this gently, while continuing to function responsibly in day to day life. You cannot eradicate ego through an act of will.
Real spiritual practice requires allowing emotional states to come and go, clinging to none of them, not even the blissful ones. Even when an enlightenment experience is genuine, it can only be lived out at the highest level of an individual's psychological and spiritual development. Pre-existing neurosis can distort even genuine enlightenment.
So take care and evaluate any charismatic teacher who comes to town. No one can be bullied into enlightenment.
Fear, anxiety and spiritual ambition short circuit any progress toward spiritual evolution. Arthur J Deikman MD, a psychiatrist and Sufi says, 'This fact, that enlightenment requires an enduring change in a person's motivations, has a number of interesting consequences. The most important is that "the secret protects itself”.
'No matter what you may say or do, if your underlying intention is selfish, and even if you are unaware that this is the case, no perception of the Truth is possible. It follows that a teacher cannot bestow the Truth on someone else. The capacity for the perception of the Truth must be developed — there is no short cut.
'Teachers who imply that enlightenment is in their gift are frauds.'
(Deikman 'Evaluating Spiritual Teachers and Utopian Groups.') The rest of Dr Deikman's article may be read (for free and at no obligation of contacting him) here: [
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