After my three years in the New Tantra I say: STAY FAR AWAY!
Alex Vartman is very intelligent. He is good at making money on peoples need for sex and connection. He does not care about YOU. His co-teachers feel abused and call him a sociopath/psychopath. They have all left him or was kicked out.
If you want to have sex under the guise of "spiritual development :-))" go ahead. Lots of sex at many of his workshops and for groups of students. And if you are a good looking male you will also have the opportunity to have anal sex with Alex Vartman himself. And your girlfriend can have a fuck with him as well, if he likes her.
Watch HOLY HELL on netflix to see something that is similar to The New Tantra.
Well when that TNT movie comes out it will be a hot one I guess... Seriously,I sincerely hope this cult, like HOLY HELL, gets documented and that his immoral practice of tantra will be exposed. In fact it is surprising he's been at it so long.Is there no check on tantra schools in the EU I wonder.
I have helping creating it as a co teacher 2010 and was involved for 10 month. feeling embarrassed for the moster that came out of it. watch holy hell, its the same story with different protagonists. I was the guy in tnt with the camera in the beginning. Alex Vartman a.k.a sandfort parrett is a very inteligent manipulative schizoid. hands off, even he is not there teaching the structure is still the same.
Do background checks to see whether any teacher has been mentored by someone whose name is tainted due to harm reports.
You must often dig for such material in your online searches because too many dodgy groups and teachers try to highlight glowing testimonials and bury harm reports.
Before we let total strangers into our souls our bodies, our hearts we need to be our own investigative journalists.. Just as wise parents do background checks before entrusting their children to care providers.
We must be wise alert parents and ask very hard questions when selecting whom to entrust with our own trustful, hopeful innocence.
Never let anyone therapist, guru, teacher, lover alienate your wise inner parent from your inner child.