Righttofight,
If I didn't mention this already, you might want to check out for references on emotional and verbal abuse, narcissism, codependency. There is a forum called The Catbox which might be of help. Most of the people who post have been in relationships with narcissists, have been on the receiving end of very covert manipulation, etc. There are several forums, but the one to r
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Large Group Awareness Training, "Human Potential"