I'm interested in hearing people's thoughts about the concept of Oneness and how it relates to emotional incest, narcissism, enmeshment I don't get what the big appeal for Oneness is. And some people who I know who are into it seem to be narcissistc and have poor boundaries, yet they think separateness is what causes war. Violating my boundaries is what pisses me off enough
Forum: Abusive and Controlling Relationships

Sparta"Abraham says that we shouldn't try to control what others do. Murderer's, child molestors, rapists and thieves...it is not our job to control them and the victim invited those events onto themselves!!! Are you kidding me? " Sparta, you spoke my heart! I can't believe his stuff on the art of allowing and blaming the victim. ?!?!?!?! besee
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