While Just Reener makes a valid point for freedom of speech, the issue is the training method used. I have known countless people involved in LGATs, cults, sects, extreme groups... most have short term benefits, long term nightmares. However, rather than blame the LGAT, I would recommend confuddled examine what would cause your loved one to get involved there in the first place. Something i
Forum: Large Group Awareness Training, "Human Potential"

Physical rape attacks the spirit, it is what makes rape, rape. Nonetheless, I understand the intent of the phrase. The mind can tell the body, "you need to heal." But when the mind is injured, the body can't return the favor.
Forum: Abusive and Controlling Relationships

You don't mention being in a stable relationship. You don't sound like you'd be happy being a single mom. Have you explored other avenues? You don't state where you are living, but if it's a big town, there will be mentor programs available. You could mentor a child. Some hospitals with ICU wards have programs that allow women to come in and hold babies that are in from
Forum: Recovery from Destructive Cults and Groups

Yes. Being naive is a pre-requisite for followers. Naiveity has nothing to do with intelligence. Some of the greatest minds of our day are naive. A strong desire to help and make a difference, is also a pre-requisite. There is a very thin line between wanting to help someone and wanting to control them. The difference between encouraging and manipulating is also thin. Stand too close to the line
Forum: Recovery from Destructive Cults and Groups

What makes you think you can't explain it to people? What expectations do you have regarding their reactions? People don't always know how to respond instantly. Sometimes it takes a while for it to sink in. All of us knows how it feels to be stumped and then, three days later think, I wish I had said... Understanding and knowing what to say don't go hand in hand.
Forum: Recovery from Destructive Cults and Groups

I have spent half my life with an individual whom I love dearly, yet have to admit, there is only so much one person can do for another. The big question people often have about him is, is he bi-polar? obsessive compulsive? on drugs? or, more often, what planet does he live on? Given family mental health issues, it has been difficult to determine how much is genetic and how much his environ
Forum: Recovery from Destructive Cults and Groups

Any time one has learned something from an experience, one walks away with knowledge to be better prepared for the future. Whether or not "anything good" will come from your unfortunate experience is up to you. Escaping is something to be grateful for.
Forum: Recovery from Destructive Cults and Groups